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veruscus · 3 years

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Self-esteem

Issues related to the development of identity and self-esteem are some of the most important in modern psychology of the personality, because the problem of self-identity in the research process of self-awareness plays a key role. Self-esteem of the individual can be called the unifying principle and the core of the development of self-consciousness of the individual. Only with the formation of a certain self-esteem, a person finds his own personality. If an individual's self-esteem is formed correctly, then it involves not just knowing oneself, and not only as a set of any characteristics and qualities. Self-esteem is, first of all, a certain attitude to oneself, implying the awareness of one's personality by an individual as a certain stable personal education. It makes it possible to maintain the stability of the individual in a variety of situations, allows a person to remain himself. In addition, self-esteem is the central link of arbitrary self-regulation, which determines the level and direction of a person's activity, his attitude to others and to himself.

In fact, there is very little of "self" in self-esteem, because in any case, this is a certain assessment of society. People look at themselves through the prism of social recognition, because initially a person is born satisfied with himself and does not know what will be required of him. For some, this self-satisfaction persists, because they were expected into this world and loved, they were engaged in it, they were taught, they were listened to, and so on. But someone's self-esteem becomes low for one reason or another.

I believe that at the very beginning of life, in childhood, our self-esteem was formed by our parents and mainly by our mother. If you were disliked, not watched over, not given proper attention, and as a result you came out as a complexed teenager with low self-esteem, then you should not blame your parents for this. Perhaps they themselves did not expect such a responsibility for such a tiny baby. It is also possible that they were also disliked, not instilled in love, and they took their own parents as an example. Your parents themselves may suffer from low self-esteem, which can be projected on their child – on you or on your siblings.

But do not think that only the complexed suffer from low self-esteem. And here it is not. The arrogant and upstart people who meddle in your life, behave tactlessly, also have low self-esteem. From this, the conclusion is that self-esteem is either low or adequate.

The question of adequate self-esteem of some people and low self-esteem of others is the moment of how well the frontal lobes of a person are pumped. Almost like a force of will. These days, many people are under constant stress, sleep poorly, get sick, eat junk food, have a lot of addictions, experience a lack of hormones of joy, self-confidence, and a plus to everything is low self-esteem. Hence so many mentally unstable people who do not accept themselves and go to extreme measures.

Logically, the question is: how to increase it? Well, the best thing you can do for your beloved self is to seek psychological help from a competent specialist. I must say that the result is cumulative and will be visible in a year or two of therapy. Without psychological help, of course, it will be more difficult, but you can also increase your self-esteem. You need to grow up, study hard, develop, play sports, learn languages, travel, communicate with pleasant and educated people, learn not to take the negative to heart.

To sum up, I can only give words of parting words: don't expect everything to be wonderful in a miraculous way. No one will do the work on you, only YOU!

#education #psychology

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veruscus · 3 years

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I don't understand one thing: when did I become a volunteer?

I work for free, they are rude to me, they use me, and I bear with a smile on my face diplomatically. Honestly, it's better to be an arrogant bitch than such a spineless mess.

People have already begun to get used to permissiveness on the Internet, with their relatives and friends. "Well, I won't get anything for it, especially no one will know!" - that's the slogan of these creatures.

Instead of the basics of safe living, it would be better to introduce the lesson "Morality and culture of speech" and "The art of loving". But no, we need to be able to disassemble and assemble the machine in 5 seconds and learn to write notes on 2737389292 pages for a single day off.

Everything is so comical, but in reality such a nightmare that the elms would envy.

In my own words, I want to convey to you, dear reader, that you need to keep your face all the time and in no case be patient. Don't touch the shit - it doesn't stink: the golden rule of morality number two.

#education #people

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