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I have to meme him or else I'll die

#i have no idea who that is but oh god the accuracy #this is what trying to explain what you're feeling when you have bpd and the other person doesn't feels like

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Sea turtle launches attacks on a scuba diver cleaning his tank only to be foiled time and time again.

#APDOFIHAODPF #'BITE- damnit. ............. BITE- damnit! .................................. BITE- GODDA-' #jack

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#every single gp weekend at mercedes

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#eugh nothing #hot sticky full of people humid loud and there's shit sticking to my skin? my own personal hell ffr

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we need more lesbians guys

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In US dollars to avoid any currency confusion. Do not include travel or accommodation, just the event ticket cost (do include the taxes and fees).

Do not include gifts, partial or full. Any level of sport or tournament is applicable!

If you want, include what event in the tags! Especially if over $2000!

#personally? like $24 to go to local short tracks when the touring modifieds or late models were in town #but when i was a teenager dad would get us pit terrace seats and cold passes to go down on pit road at watkins #glen during the nascar/imsa weekend and that was a pretty penny

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odwyer_sio9

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The two twins…

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I wish more ppl on political debates just did this

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Sunlight bursts through the Storm

(c) riverwindphotography, April 2024

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#hubby's a natural blonde and the reason i'm still here to read this 🤷‍♀️

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NEW VERSION. :)

#'shall i describe it to you or would you like me to find you a box?' #gimli my beloved <3

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my father absolutely refuses to be the parent in our relationship and expects me to be available and willing to talk every single time he calls, doesn't respect my boundaries or the very basic accomodations i ask for (like texting rather than calling, since talking on the phone is very stressful to me from a combination of having bpd and not being able to see peoples' faces as they talk and also a history of deeply traumatic phone calls with my mother), and he calls several times a week despite knowing he's a retiree and i'm disabled, unemployed, and have no kids so neither of us have anything to talk about, and then guilt trips me over it. like actually think about someone passive-aggressively guilt tripping you for not picking up a phone call. i'm 36 years old, he's literally done this when i didn't pick up cuz i was fucking, cuz i was at the store, cuz i was at the doctor's office, cuz my phone was charging and not in my line of sight, cuz i was watching a live sporting event and didn't want to miss anything, etc etc. and he fucking calls my husband's phone immediately after if i don't answer, including when he knows he's at work and isn't supposed to take personal calls if he doesn't have to. this time it's bc i'm singing, trying to wind down after a very stressful week in which i got tested for multiple sclerosis, which he knows happened because i texted him less than two days ago to let him know how the test went (negative, so good news), and his guilt trip was "i wish you'd call me to let me know how you're doing" in a text like dude be so fucking for real right now

#he's the /only/ family member i have left but god it's exhausting #and like also he loves me but he loves me so long as we just don't talk about or at all acknowledge that i'm #not straight not cis not religious not conservative etc etc #and tries to force religion on me despite being explicitly told i associate it strongly with the sexual trauma #i've endured and am reminded of it every single time he brings it up

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people with chronic pain will go “ why can’t I sleep well? Why am I crying for no reason? Why am I getting frustrated easily ?” Not yet realizing their pain got worse

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No in between. Reblog if you vote pleas

#very warm #i absolutely hate anything over 65 and i prefer it to be 30-50