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Real question in good faith: is it possible to find a doula that advocates for or is nonjudgmental of medicated birth?

I think medicated birth is one of the wonders of the modern world but I also felt very alone and uncared for by the whole natal care process. I would have loved to have someone to talk with, ask questions of, be treated like a human being but also have that person be like 'Hey! This bitch asked for an epidural 90 mins ago! Where is it?!'

I really, really would like someone on this journey for me but I have no intention of having a natural birth. I wanna be in the hospital, regularly tested, and epiduraled to my ears.

#im sympathetic to the idea of natural birth ive just been through a lot of pain in my life and im not doing that again if i can help it #anyway im pregnant again and i would like a doula but everyone i look for is a natural home birth doula #and i just need someone to tell me im not crazy and im doing a great job

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Kirsten Valentine, Untitled (Love Handle), 2019

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i want 60 thousand votes by next thursday

#okay

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Josef Lada — Spring paintings

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"La Pointe Courte" d'Agnès Varda (1955), février 2024.

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this show has it all btw

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#i know a family that named their daughter Lyra after HDM #and my friend named her kid Arthur bc she is v into Arthurian legend #but no nothing too egregious #anecdotally a lot of the kids we know have pretty normal names. no Johns but a lot of Roses Ellas Thomases Miles and Henrys

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The stream in winter. 

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No see results option, I'm forcing you to perceive yourself. rb for more results plus

#irl #im a real human w friends and a job and a family etc #online i get to be a little weird creature who reposts the most rancid memes and is obsessed w fictional characters #so yeah def def def irl

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Master and Commander: The Far Side of the World (2003)

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#hey!!! this is one of our books!! #buy this please!!! #but especially!! ask your local bookstore to get it for you!! #local bookstores can order it in a few days just like amazon and you also a) proved demand and b) supported an indie!! #anyway i love this book please please keep buying it

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mb: Danny Ocean & Rusty Ryan

#oceans eleven #god i love this movie

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saw a poll about dry/humid heat and like OBVIOUSLY everyone preferred dry heat but. would love to know what everyone considers to be “too hot”

me personally it’s a hard cutoff at 75°F. don’t need anything more than that thank you 🫶🫶🫶

#on average 70-80 is good #but there is just something about a 90-100 degree day that makes you a little wild a little sleep and a little reckless all at once #and i would be sad to forgo those

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Jason and the Argonauts (1963)

#ray harryhausen #!!! #love this movie. a top ten truly

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#this hurts #i guess ill just be sad then? #james flint #black sails

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“If this goes away…Flint’s war. If it all ended and we had to walk away from it. Would I be enough for you?”

#forehead kisses that want me dead #black sails

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#a perfect film in fact #yes i saw it at 14 and didnt get it. i saw it again at 28 and have watched it multiple times a year since #embrace your inner dad and watch master and commander