In genuine shock over some of the things I tolerated for the sake of not stirring the pot or preserving a friendship I thought was worth all the emotional turmoil. Like actually cannot even believe I once let certain things slide. With creating boundaries comes the painful interim of being embarrassed of just how much you let slide before you had enough
It IS true that being on here gives you a tumblr accent. This morning my mother asked me something and i replied "i don't know i've never heard these words in that order" and she nearly choked laughing. It wasn't even that funny
I was in the car with my mom when suddenly a radio show host started talking about a study that revealed people are having less sex than previous decades and that for the first time in a while monogamy has been prevailing more than one night stands and open relationships (which tbh sounds a bit suspicious to me but whatever) and so the hosts started talking about their personal sexual frequency needs and basically all agreed that while they do enjoy doing it they don't find it to be a suuuuuuuper need (to various degrees) and then went on to talk about how they know people who basically can't live without it and all this blabla reminded me of this one particular time when my group of friends were talking about how desperately they needed to have sex/cuddle with someone/have boyfriends and stuff right at that very second and at any point i thought "oh that's interesting maybe i should too" or "ew that's weird calm down" but rather i literally went
“Often father and daughter look down on mother together. They exchange meaningful glances when she misses a point. They agree that she is not bright as they are, cannot reason as they do. This collusion does not save the daughter from the mother’s fate”