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This? This isn't cool. Don't repost personal pics. Y'all need to keep your fantasy and reality straight

May or may not have posted some of your pics in a Discord server for more men to see

Genuinely don't know how to feel about this....

Like I know I posted on here, but someone taking my pics to post somewhere else feels a little off

Things like this make me want to delete my pics off here and not post any again

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The fun begins when they start to panic. That moment the need for oxygen overrides all coherent thought and they fight for breath is beautiful. That raw, unfiltered emotion is what makes them feel alive

dom choking their sub and getting turned on even more when the sub starts to desperately claw at their hands and arms

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Sometimes my followers are curious about how they might get my attention, so here is a good little girl that understands how to properly worship me. Learn to give me the respect and adoration I deserve and perhaps you will earn the attention your crave

#vixen #worship

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She resisted for longer than I expected, but in the end her hunger was stronger than her shame

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Your brain is complicated, and using it makes you sad. Your pussy is so much more simple, and just wants you to be happy.

Which are you going to listen to?

Brainless is always better, it’s the best, cunts don’t need a brain when they have 3 holes.

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I want everyone to know what needy slut you are when you walk down the aisle. I want people to look at you and see a brainless bimbo dressed up for her Man. I want them to understand I am not just marrying you, I am taking possession of you.

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There is nothing more romantic than being so obsessed with someone that you realize you can't live without them, no matter how hard they try to resist.

Kidnapping is an act of romance

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It was an adjustment session. She hadn't done anything wrong, hadn't disrespected me or disobeyed. I do these regularly to remind her of her place and what disobedience feels like. When that memory is fresh and her skin still burns from my hand she is not likely to be forgetful

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You will always be most pretty after I have used you and turned you into a beautiful mess

Before and after

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I asked if you were ok with softgirl talking to other men and she SAID yes. But then didn't really give off the impression that she wanted to talk. Do you think she's still nervous about what you'll say?

I can assure you she is not concerned with my reaction to any conversation she might have with other people. It is important to remember that I am not playing a game here on Tumblr. When I say that softgirl is mine, it is not an idle claim.

I work hard for both of my girls. I cook them delicious meals, I pick out clothes for them when that decision is too hard, I keep them accountable for things they need to do for their own health such as exercise or hygiene, I find interesting things for us to do together. With softgirl specifically I give her the physical affection she desires in ways she is able to accept. I am the big strong Man that can carry her to bed when her legs are tired. I am supporting her as we work through diagnosing her chronic pain. I provide her patience and stability she desperately needs in a world that has not been kind to her.

These girls are the loves of my life, and I have no concerns or jealousy about who they will talk to because I have no reason to. You could be the most intelligent and creative Dom out there, but you wouldn't have the history or experience with her to change what we have.

No, I am afraid if she isn't responding to her you simply aren't being interesting enough. I can relate to this as once you have been around long enough you see patterns start to emerge in your conversations with people. We start to look for something with a more interesting spark.

I am guessing you didn't demonstrate a reason she should talk to you.

#lifestyle #mercy #softgirl #thehandthatfollows #be better

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Where is softgirl?

At the moment I imagine she is still sleeping on the floor next to my bed where I left her when I went to work, but I will assume you mean her blog. softgirl has had worse luck than most with the Tumblr moderator, and her latest blog has been deleted. I am still not sure what causes them to delete blogs, and it seems to change every few months. Regrettably, there doesn't seem to be a good replacement for Tumblr even all this time after the porn ban, so here I remain.

But you are wanting her new blog, I am sure:

@softgirll7

Go give her a follow, she deserves the attention

#lifestyle #softgirl

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Training doesn't always look like you are making progress, but then one day you step back and realize how far you have come. mercy is a very intelligent girl, and I wouldn't dream of taking that from her. She is always ridiculous, silly, and often speaks before acting. She used to be a lot more ashamed of that, but I have been helping her understand these are not bad things and I don't think less of her because of it. I want mercy to be comfortable being herself.

That last paragraph may appear contradictory, but being a real bimbo is not as simple as being stupid. It's about the freedom to let go of stress and shame and to ignore the need to be right all the time. It's about not being what everyone thinks you should be.Letting go of the expectations other people put on you is, in my opinion, the only way to really be happy in life.

@toy-with-eli @kirathewarrior1999 @aurora03e

Why don't you be a Good Girl and reblog with your bimbo personality?

#lifestyle #mercy #thehandthatfollows #bimbo

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I think I am very happy a girl as beautiful as you is mine

What do y'all think?

#softgirl #mine

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A Night at the BDSM Club

Last night mercy and I did something we have never done before, we went to a BDSM club. It was a lot of thing I more or less expected, and some things I definitely didn't. Read on and I'll provide a summary.

The most predictable part of the night was probably the location, a nondescript building tucked away in a corner of the city I have never seen. The only reason I knew we were in the right place was the line starting to form at the door. Most people dressed in relatively normal clothes and changed inside, but there was definitely a vibe happening. A lot of people had bags or suitcases for their toys. As for us, I was in jeans and a button up shirt, mercy had a tight dress that barely covered her ass.

As a note up front, this event was much bigger than I expected. There were easily 50 people there, from a variety of ages. There is and old stereotype that the BDSM community is full of middle age people looking for excitement, but we saw people from their 20s up to somewhere in their 60s.

To get in we had to get approved for membership in advance, which was painless enough for us. Applying as a couple definitely helped there. The club was strictly no phones, so we left ours in the car. Turns out you CAN bring them in, but if they see you using them in the play spaces they will kick you out. However, they do have a room specifically for phone use. We had to show ID at the door, and they cross checked that to pull up our tickets we had already purchased. Entry was $60 for the two of us.

I found out later that this place was a more normal club most of the time and the group was renting it for the night. From the entrance you could see their main lounge area with a stage complete with pole. However, we were directed upstairs for the event. We had to sign a waiver, and then they gave us a tour.

There were three primary rooms. A social room, that was explicitly a "non play" area. Mostly couches for people to rest and chat. They were pretty strict, I saw them call one person out for starting a scene in that room. They had a LOT of signs on the wall, and a big rule was "no naughty bits on the furniture", which made us wonder how hard cleanup was.

The second room was a dark room. They kept the lights low in the room, they had a number of tables and a big cross. There were also a couple of smaller private rooms off this one, and you could use those if they were available. There were also tables with condoms and lube for those who needed it, as well as first aid kits and towels.

The last room was the main room. There was a small stage on one side, and a dance floor that had been set up with rows of chairs. Around the edge of the room were a number of couches, and there was additional furniture scattered here and there. (more on that later). This room also had the bar, although there was no alcohol at this event. The bar instead served water, juice, and red bull. There were also bowls of candy and snacks, as well as a very large cake.

This event was intended to be an introduction to people new to the scene, although most people there were clearly experienced. There were a few things set up for new people to try, I'll get into that later. There was also a... lecture? A class? A presentation? Whatever you call it, the night started off with this. A couple up on stage talked us through building "energy" through a scene. Honestly, this all got a little too "new agey", and there was too much talk about chakra for my tastes.

After they were done, they cleared the chairs from the floor, brought the lights down, and brought out the "furniture" These were padded benches set out in the middle of the room. These got a lot of use throughout the night. They also had big wooden structures for people to do suspension work, and there were a few riggers doing that.

Neither of us was really sure what to expect at this point. Our intent this first time was mostly just to observe and get the vibe of the place. At first we were really unclear what the boundaries were. They established pretty early on what the limits for the even were, and this mostly stuck to respecting consent and not spilling blood. However, at a social event like this the unspoken rules tend to hold as much weight as the official ones.

So, what did we see?

The benches in the middle of the room got a lot of use, mostly for impact play. A lot of paddles, floggers, as well as hand work. These were in use throughout the night, ad it was definitely interesting seeing that happening in public. There was a strong voyouristic element at play. A lot of people were standing around chatting, or sitting on the couches watching.

By this point in the night most people had changed or undressed, as the case may be. There were some people completely naked, but most people were wearing some form of clothing. There were some in leather harnesses and traditional "bondage" gear, there were a number of people in rave style outfits. We definitely saw tits and cock. That said, there were also people just wearing jeans and a T-shirt. That felt... not right for the event.

They had demonstration stations set up for the night. There was a fire station, an impact play station, and an electric play section. That last one caught mercy's attention, so we tried that. The lady running that station took a lot of time explaining what she was going to do and making sure mercy consented to all of it. They had these electrical boxes there that you could attach various devices to that would all have different effects. She ended up using this gas-filled bulb thing that you can run electricity through. it glowed quite brightly, and she would run it along mercy's skin to gently shock her. She also did this thing where she held a metal rod and conducted the electricity through herself to shock mercy with her hands. It was interesting. mercy did have to take her dress off as it was conducting electricity in a weird way, so she was in her underwear for most of this.

The big thing we were getting is that impact play was a big deal for this group. mercy is not a fan of pain, so while we have experimented with that in the past, it's definitely not for her. (softgirl is a different story). Driving home from the event, mercy and I reflected that a lot of what we both enjoy in kink is the mental aspect. Exploring taboo and submission in our every day life. I got the impression that a lot of people do this mostly as a hobby, which is perfectly fine but very different from what I do. Most of the night was people doing "scenes" with a partner. Usually this just meant spanking them. There wasn't a lot of heavy bondage, few gags. I did see a lot of collars, and there were leaches.

What didn't we see? Sex. I didn't see a single person actually having sex, apart from a single blowjob in the dark room. We did ask a volunteer about that, and they said it was definitely within the rules. It was unclear if that was a social pressure thing, but I must say I was expecting more explicit activity than we saw.

I definitely got the impression that this was a freedom of expression thing. Body positivity was definitely a theme, and there were a lot of people that didn't have the "traditionally" beautiful body that were dressed provocatively.

At no point in the night did I feel uncomfortable. The people we talked to were friendly, the room was clean. none of the couches were sticky. However, it did feel fairly "clique-y". There were clearly a lot of regulars, and people mostly left us alone.

Overall, it was an interesting experience. I'm glad we went, and I am interested in attending again in the future. Now that we have a better idea of how this all works, mercy and I have much better idea of things we want to try. For one thing, next time mercy will be wearing something much more revealing. I'm also going to be pushing her limits some on public exposure. Maybe these people just need to hear how pretty mercy sounds when she is edged into oblivion.

If you made it this far I hope you found it interesting. I'm happy to answer questions about the experience if you have them.

#lifestyle #mercy #thehandthatfollows #bdsm #public event

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Alternatively, some people become so much more attractive once you get a peek inside their head

A lot of people become unattractive once you find out how they think

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She knew she was watching, but just to make sure she did what she could to draw attention to her best feature

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I love this part. The little crease where her legs meet her ass. The tight little shorts that show it off. Running my hand along it as we watch TV. Knowing that she is mine

#lifestyle #softgirl #mine