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[theabusediary]

Having an emotionally mature partner is TOP TIER. You're able to express yourself freely and openly. They don’t insult you. They don't give you the silent treatment. They don't become aggressive or manipulative. They listen, they respond—they patiently hold a safe space for you.

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Yea…

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I don’t want to face the truth. It hurts too much.

I like the type of people who take the pain away, even if they cause more of it.

I can’t look in the mirror long enough to decide who I am so I let others define me.

[theabusediary]

How much you were loved by your parents determines how much love you will accept from other people.

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Please tell me i'm not as forgettable as your silence is making me feel.

[theabusediary]

it gets better. you find better. you experience better. in due time you will become better. better is all you will attract.

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But I would never kiss anyone who doesn't burn me like the sun.

Jens Lekman

[theabusediary]

You can over love people too.

[theabusediary]

Hopeless just hope less…

[theabusediary]

It was good for a while, being empty. I didn’t hurt anymore. But as time went on, it was like I could hear myself from far away, begging for permission to come back.

Myra McEntire

[theabusediary]

"When someone truly cares about you, they make an effort not an excuse." - Unknown

[theabusediary]

I have to stop confusing trauma bonds with love

[theabusediary]

I don’t want to do this anymore