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here have 10 pieces of writing advice that have stuck with me over the years

every character’s first line should be an introduction to who they are as a person

even if you only wrote one sentence on a really bad day, that’s still one sentence more than you had yesterday

exercise restraint when using swear words and extra punctuation in order for them to pack a punch when you do use them

if your characters have to kiss to show they’re in love, then they’re not in love

make every scene interesting (or make every scene your favorite scene), otherwise your readers will be just as bored as you

if you’re stuck on a scene, delete the last line you wrote and go in a different direction, or leave in brackets as placeholders

don’t compare your first draft to published books that could be anywhere from 3rd to 103rd drafts

i promise you the story you want to tell can fit into 100k words or less

sometimes the book isn’t working because it’s not ready to be written or you’re not ready to write it yet; let it marinate for a bit so the idea can develop as you become a better writer

a story written in chronological order takes a lot more discipline and is usually easier to understand than a story written with flashbacks

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for the one story i ever actually wrote, this is very accurate. No plan, a ton of characters that I let take me on the journey and I just wrote it and kept track of plots/subplots that needed resolving eventually

Ne/Ni Writing Technique

I’m always getting submissions to highlight the differences between Ne and Ni; I accept some of them and reject others for being too vague / generalizing.

One of the easiest ways I’ve found to distinguish Ne and Ni in yourself is to look at your writing technique and how you structure articles (or school assignments) and/or stories or novels.

Without exception, every “confirmed” high Ni in my life writes it all in their head. That’s where all the pieces come together; that’s where they decide on the tone and wording and style and structure; that’s where a huge amount of pre-thinking comes in. One INFJ in my life told me she may not write a word on a story for 6 months, or even a year – she lets the entire thing build in her mind, slot into space, then she writes it down and she’s done. There’s no external editing or restructuring, since it all happened in her mind. All of them say that: no major edits, no renaming of characters, no changing of professions, no reorganizing of chapters. Just a basic line edit. Done.

Without exception, every “confirmed” high Ne in my life revises as they go. They just start writing. They let the characters write the story, and create their own subplots, and take them wherever they need to go. Many of them start out with a basic idea of their plot, but abandon it if a better idea comes along. Some of them (myself included) have a specific scene they are working toward (or a plot twist or a big reveal) and let the plot weave itself while they’re writing it, but others have no specific ending in mind; the story writes itself. All of them easily revise, rewrite, take characters out, blend them into one person, move chapters around and/or go back and add something in later to support a stronger plot thread. All their revision is external because it’s Ne.

(Second gif: example of a Ne-driven narrative… keep reading.)

Speaking from personal experience, the process of “starting” a new novel is always more frustrating than exciting… because I am basically just writing. A lot of different things. Trying out different ideas. I know if it’s not the right one, because the writing is a chore and I don’t want to do it, vs when I do find the right plot – and then I’m excited to find out what’s going to happen next, because I don’t know. I have a basic idea of what I want in my current WIP, but I had no idea there would be an attempted strangulation or suspicions about a woman’s husband… these are things the characters brought to me. And it’s exciting to open up my Word file each day and have one or two things I want to include in that chapter, but total freedom to see what the characters give me.

That’s Ne. It’s Ne when I realize at the last minute that I haven’t decided on a topic for an article on Sherlock Holmes, so I sit down and just start writing about Holmes… and it flows from this idea to that idea, and then I notice a pattern and start correcting and writing to focus on that theme. And then I’m done.

Something else I have noticed about the writing style of Ne vs Ni writers in my life is… Ni’s seem to have fewer characters than Ne’s. Ne’s always run the risk of starting out with two characters and then they meet four more, and then there’s twelve somehow and all of them have such interesting stories, we ought to focus on them. And unless they have either a damn good editor or a strong Te, their stories can quickly get enormous with too many characters. (*cough* George R.R. Martin *cough*) But a lot of my NJ friends tell me they prefer to have a smaller, more developed bunch of characters and a tighter plot.

So, what does this mean if you’re not a writer?

Take this principle and apply it to life. NJs do the same thing with life as they do their stories. The same goes for NPs. NJs visualize and lay out in their head and then move into action with that specific outcome in mind. NPs just… leap into life and figure it out as they go along, revising all their philosophies, beliefs, and approaches along the way.

Happy writing, my friends. I have a dark, sinister castle for my captain of the guard to investigate and no idea of what’ll happen other than it’ll be exciting, because my characters hate to bore me and love a good adventure story.

- ENFP Mod

#nedom #entp #enfp #mbti

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Sleep is overrated anyway

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frankly, this is a very impressive read on entps ffs 

The Elusive Entp

and how to handle them

There are lots of fake entps out there, so I have compiled random notes about the few/actually many statistically that I know/handle on a regular basis. Some of this may apply to other tps, but I’m writing specifically here. Featuring gifs of people I’m pretty sure are entps, but might change my mind knowing me aha.

Summary of All Entps:

Childlike, but this can be in a good way. Entps aren’t meant to grow up in the same way as an Sj, they’re always gonna a be a little bit like a small kid. ♥

In a relationship, entps can seem very chill and charming at first. But they can also have avoidant tenancies and fear of low Fe. They’re a little insecure before peak Fe development, so they might try to make you jealous if they feel threatened. Who threatens an entp? Only people you like or respect that they feel are better than them. Entps don’t like being trumped, their Ti can be a little immature this way 😋

Entps respect independence and intelligence, and they really like intuitives. They like debating everything and throwing around dumb ideas for the fun of it when they’re relaxed.

Can be very quiet and intraverted when not comfortable, or just when a little stressed or tired. Can be mistaken for an fj or fp when well developed, especially an enfj or enfp.

Entps always have a reason for what they’re doing or saying, even if it’s a ‘dumb’ one. So if your entp says they don’t know why they’re doing something, don’t buy it. They have a secret agenda. 😉

Entps can be accidentally callous or even deliberately mean, but they’re also really paranoid about upsetting people. They can be easily pushed around if they feel low Fe guilt.

^surprisingly, this is when an *nfj can step in and say 'um… No? Don’t let them guilt trip you!’

Summary of Young Entps:

Happy, outgoing, cheeky, kids who wanna work out how everything works and how they can do it all themselves. Have some spectacularly dumb ideas, but they’re so little it’s all cool.

^this Ti development is what *nfjs go through in later teens, when they actually have to suffer and sound spectacularly dumb cos they’re not a kid. So entps are a natural help here, and they’re not too mean cos they remember when they used to be dumb too.

Summary of Depressed/Looping/Immature Entps:

When they’re rejecting their childlike nature, they can be childlike in a really bad, immature emotional way.

When they’re depressed they can be boring, withdrawn, paranoid, and irrational. They can become convinced everyone hates them and only see the negative.

They can use immature Fe to manipulate people. They might use their Fi Trickster function to convince you they’re the victim when they’re not.

They’re very sensitive to society and gender roles and stuff, and want to fit in very badly (low Fe I guess). But they also want to be feared and admired for their cunning, so they can be really mean, even on purpose, only to be really upset when people hate them for it. And if you don’t hate them for it and are kind in spite of it, they’ll cry.

Overly secretive, then gets upset when people don’t know who they really are.

^ would just like to add that, interestingly, this is ALL the same rubbish *nfjs have gone through when younger, so they’re defs natural friends. *nfjs basically demonstrate to *ntps that Fe is there to help you care for people, not care about how they see you (though obvs it does both). It’s also not there to charm people into doing what you want so that you never have to put in the effort of actually growing a friendship 😂

Also, over emotional, dramatic, and unstable, like any immature person.

Notes on Female Entps:

Obsessed with body image, a lot of them seem to have eating disorders. Also want to be smart, but very conscious of society’s expectations about their looks in particular. Not comfortable with who they are, would like to be an Fj or a Tj. Want to be kind and caring, but also cut throat and ruler of everything.

Notes on Male Entps:

Obsessed with being seen as intelligent and basically as tj as possible. Wants to be cut throat but can’t pull it off emotionally or strategically - frustrated when people get the better of them. Very upset when people dislike them because of their nastiness. Unable to accept intellectual failure, so struggles to learn from mistakes.

Points on How to Handle Them:

Entps who are immature cannot be helped. They must help themselves. Your only goal here is to not get used or hurt by their poor Fe.

Be mean. Not actually mean, tough love mean. Entps benefit from Te or te look alikes like low Ti.

Be kind. That’s the main one. Truly hurt entps withdraw. They go all quiet and their eyes go big, or maybe they tense their jaw and try to look mad. In that situation you should be kind over tough love, cos you don’t want them to go into their paranoid 'everyone hates me’ loop.

The easy way to tell whether their sudden tears are real? How easily they can stop when you say 'stop it, that’s fake’ or even 'I believe you’. Crying entps are very upset and will not be able to just STOP crying. (You could also try tasting the tears, cos sad ones are salty and fake ones aren’t, but that might be weird). As well as that, entps truly crying are generally on low Si and will moan about how they’re going to fail and they’ve ruined their lives, whereas fake crying entps will moan about how they’ve upset you or other random things they think may shut you up.

See intent. Don’t listen to what the entp is actually saying, hear what they mean. It will save you a lot of time being offended 😂

Explain yourself. Entps on the internet have a reputation as being emotionally callous, but they’re not if you can explain it. 'When you do this, I feel this way because’ was a formula invented for our Tp friends, and it will usually soften an entp (I’m sure there are bad exceptions!).

Stay calm. Don’t expect your entp to be a j - it will kill you all. Your entp will probably improve over time, but don’t plan on it.

Be honest. Really, don’t bother keeping any secrets from your entp. They’ll just invent a terrible, paranoid narrative or completely not notice. Their low Fe will assume everything is fine, and when you finally break it to them they’ve been upsetting you the whole time, their little tp hearts will break 💔

Discuss your expectations. Expect to negotiate your expectations.

Tell them when they’re arguing and refuse to engage as much as possible. Debate and fruitful discussion only.

Copy your entp. If your entp gets overly aggressive or upset all of a sudden, match their reaction with your own. They’ll usually realise how completely irrational it is. (For example, if entp says 'WHY DID YOU WARM UP MY FOOD, I LIKE IT COLD?!’ be like 'OH MY GOODNESS I’M SO SORRY, I CAN’T BELIEVE I DID THAT, HOW COULD I NOT HAVE REMEMBERED, OUR LIVES ARE OVER’. They’ll usually laugh with you at that point

Don’t be nasty. If you can’t do the above things from a kind place, don’t do them. Entps aren’t always emotionally clued up, but they can be very sensitive to negative intentions.

Randomly ask them what they’re keeping from you. If they instantly look away (even if they frown, smile, whatever) they’re probably keeping something… Entps actively keeping secrets generally isn’t healthy. Entps have Ti, so they might forget to mention stuff. But if they purposely hold stuff back, it’s usually bad. They’ll probs try to justify keeping it to themselves and construct a paranoid narrative about you, so don’t let them drift too far if you can.

Don’t take it personally. High maintenance required for immature/depressed/looping entps. Like walking on eggshells and pulling chicken’s teeth all at once.

Enjoy their strange affection. Functioning entps are very warm and caring, even if it is in slightly strange ways.

Expect the unexpected. No, not in a romantic way. Entps are romantic, but they’re given too much credit for actually doing stuff about it. Unexpect the expected. Entps don’t want to do anything just cos it’s expected, so tell them explicitly if you want something… And then don’t expect them to remember. Just in case.

Talk about everything. Don’t ridicule any idea, just discuss it and the entp will realise how unrealistic it is if it is. They probs just having fun anyway.

Lead the way. Entps want deep friendships, but they don’t often know how to get there - or they just don’t bother getting there. Just do your thing, they’ll probably follow. Entps can be flighty and hard to pin down, but they’ll probably tell you straight up if they don’t like you or want to hang out.

Ditch them once in a while. Entps respect independence and will quickly get bored if you just cling. But don’t ditch them too much, cos they’re also insecure and jealous when pushed (who isn’t?).

Don’t pat their ego. Your entp isn’t always going to be the smartest/prettiest/best in general person in the room, so don’t reassure them that they are. Reassure them that they’re your choice and you love them, but don’t indulge their fantasies.

#entp #mbti

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ENTP problems

I either have no attention span for anything at all and i’m bouncing off the walls or I focus so obsessively that I miss every meal… and there is no in between. 

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Oh god, this is eerily accurate

Distancer over lvl 9000

I’m literally “The Distancer” like this is blowing my mind 

#entp #mbti #enneagram 7 #7w8 #distancer #fear of engulfment

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had to make a tough decision earlier-live in my own IRL i spy page, or get my act together and clean my room...unfortunately i did the latter. Though in my heart of hearts i know the pig sty room is never more than 1.5 weeks away <3

#entp #mbti #inferior si #sp blind #ne dom #female #spring clean #bedroom #7w8 #enneagram 7

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Hmm I guess this is accurate

It’s really painful to see sp blinds making bad decisions because it’s as if they weren’t aware that their problems are because of that. like…

sp blind: *broke and has debts to pay* sp blind: this is a good time to buy that one expensive tv I’ve always wanted even though my current tv works perfectly!!!

sp blind: *needs to study hard and pass their exams because they didn’t do well last year* sp blind: my friends invited me to eat together again. Another class I skip haha XD

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For the fools who still dont quite grasp this shit

How do I recognize if Im a Fe user or a Fi user?

Ain’t no Fe without Ti.

Ain’t no Fi without Te.

Fe/Ti: aware of and expressive of their emotions, withdraws to think things through, likes to build a framework of reality, will not stop until it “makes sense to me.”

Fi/Te: aware of and non-expressive of their emotions, likes to organize facts and structures outside themselves, aims to complete goals, does not always need to understand something completely to work with it, swayed by “proof.”

Fe/Ti: I can easily articulate my feelings in ways others can understand / readily accessible language, and find ways to connect to others and help them ‘get it’ by pointing out unifiers and things we have in common. Expressing my emotions as things happen makes me feel better and enables me to better recognize, understand, and work through my feelings. I base my decisions around what is best for everyone involved in the situation and often identify others’ feelings easily and/or feel what they feel.

Fi/Te: I find it hard to explain my emotions without becoming abstract, vague, or struggling for words – sometimes I resort to analogies or metaphors. My emotions tend to be all jumbled up inside, a lot of them at one time, so I can’t just define them with a word or two. I become somewhat angry and defensive if others interpret them wrongly or accuse me of the wrong set of feelings for the situation; I can’t help what I feel, and if it doesn’t match, that’s too bad. It can take me a long time to work through my feelings on my own, but I need to do it alone. I base my decisions on what I feel is right for the situation. I don’t know what others feel, any more than they know what I’m feeling; I can only guess, based on what I might feel in their situation.

- ENFP Mod

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Seriously though. These are the thoughts that go through mine and everybody else’s heads, it’s absurd how strange we are

Hanging in a group where you are the only Ne user:

Is this normal? Am I secretly drunk? Do I have ADHD?

#entp #enfp #nedom #ne #mbti #cognitive functions #ne function

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truth

ENTP problems

Only an extrovert around people you like

#entp #mbti

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Hell yeah! I read too many Enid Blyton books as a kid to not crave a little more surprise and mystery in every building I go into lol

i think life just needs more secret passages in it. some hidden rooms with switches disguised as books. maybe a couple of harmless traps. we just need more scooby doo hijinks in my opinion.

#mbti #entp #enfp #7w6 #books #mystery #secretseven #famousfive #enid blyton #adventure

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Ti/Te Convenience

Again, I’m here to properly grasp the functions. If I’m wrong, correct me.

Extroverted Thinking: their mode of convenience is to get as much work done as possible so they can move on with their lives; tackle everything and get it out of the way; shortcuts are a waste of time because it’s inefficient (it’s basically skipping over things that should be done)

Introverted Thinking: their mode of convenience is to get their work done with as little effort as possible; use shortcuts to get everything out of the way; tackling everything is a waste of time because it’s inefficient (longer hours spent on something, but those hours could’ve gone in to doing something else)

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The amount of times I’ve said this exact same thing is uncanny

TBH ENTP #121

Is there a job where I can just give people good ideas 

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me

More on ENTP

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Me(ENTP) meeting any INTP

Me: Hey! I’m like you but loud, annoying and crazy

Every INTP: *pretends to not hear I said that*

#entp #intp #mbti #personality types #myers briggs

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Hahahaha!

Arguing

xsfx: fine, you’re right. whatever. just please stop arguing with me!

xntx: but don’t you want to hear the rest of my argument?

xsfx: no!

xntx:

xntx: well i want to hear the rest of my argument