#y’all headcanon these characters in that way and then scream sweet home Alabama when someone thinks they should kiss

[blye-flower]

Stop!!!! Trying!!! To family coded characters with clear romantic interests!!!!!! I don’t give two rats asses about your headcanon, I don’t care that you headcanon the female character as a lesbian with comhet!! I don’t really care that you don’t like the ship and I definitely don’t care that you think they’re better as friends!! Putting that familial spin on a character who’s clearly romantically invested in another character is WEIRD!! Even trying to force your headcanon on people who clearly don’t feel the same without the canonical context is WEIRD!! That is weirdo behavior!!! You’re being a WEIRDO!!!

And before anyone gets their fingers in a twist, no I’m not saying that you can’t headcanon a female character as a lesbian with comhet even with romantic interest for a male character, I’m saying trying to push a FAMILIAL lens onto the character despite her canonically interest being romantic is weird. Y’all say y’all want healthy portrayals of female-male friendships and yet y’all push them into family relations every single time. If you don’t ship them that’s fine, but that doesn’t make them family. Damn.

#blymi rants #and please don’t be obtuse #friends are the family you choose yeah but y’all know y’all don’t treat them like that #y’all headcanon these characters in that way and then scream sweet home Alabama when someone thinks they should kiss #there are extreme sides to each side of the argument and yet they’re both afraid of platonic relationships and I HATE it #y’all fr get on this internet and kill tf outta nuance and that’s sad for y’all #and yes I said weird. I call it weirdo behavior #calling it anything more than that is too much for a fandom issues #if you wanna be deranged about it tho be that on your own time