#who knows mahybe im weird but also i am a crossdresser and drag queens do it so whatev

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i dont care about my pronouns that much anymore it really isn't gonna kill me so most of the time when i have to put them somewhere i just say "he/her" cause i don't care other than not liking being called they + people are more likely to take my one off transmed comments as a joke if they think i am One Of Them. anyways the other day one of my well-meaning but 😭😭😭 friend went "i thought you were genderfluid? you know, cause of your pronouns" and i regretted my choice to start saying that for a solid day. i will continue to do it, regardless.

#i don't like being called they because when i was a baby trans i always felt like people would use it on me to avoid acknowledging that #i was indeed a boy but without getting in trouble for calling me a girl. u know? #'but i didn't say she i didn't misgender you!' #n for the she i think it's silly if people call me a she so i let them do it. doesn't change anything #who knows mahybe im weird but also i am a crossdresser and drag queens do it so whatev #taking inspiration or whatever u wanna call it #another reason i dont like they but more recently after i started crossdressing is that people will call me a they because it makes the #fact that i am a man in a dress easier to digest but i have no plans to make myself more digestible if you do not like it thts ur problem #it's easier to pretend that i am less of a man or less of a woman (not that i am a woman but in the crossdressing way) and call me a they #does that mean i will let you? no. i will not let you i will bellyache until your ears bleed