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#then it's less enjoyable for you because it kinda feels like you're intruding
buckleydiazmp4
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hm.
#i guess a lot of ppl will disagree or whatever but
#that post about the 'weird cliques' forming on tumblr? i agree with it actually
#and a lot of ppl justify it by saying that they all share passions and are similar and interact a lot and that's bound to happen
#and yeah maybe they're right
#but it doesn't mean everyone likes that
#because for the people that don't belong to those 'cliques' it just takes the fun out of the experience
#like specifically in fandoms
#if you're in a fandom that fandom probably has a looot of members
#but when there are like ten or fifteen or a small number like that that have formed their own little group
#and then they post stuff about it out of context and all you see in your dash is those interactions
#then it's less enjoyable for you because it kinda feels like you're intruding
#and sure. everybody has the right to make friends in here. that's cool and everything
#but some people aren't the kind to just randomly go into somebody's inbox or messages and just instantly make a lot of friends
#and it's even harder because ppl have become so excessively judgemental now
#like if you don't have the exact same opinions in every topic that they do
#then you're instantly 'cancelled' or blocked or unfollowed
#how are we supposed to try to make friends that way?
#so logging into tumblr end up becoming stressful and boring instead of a place to enjoy your passions and your favorite things
#it's kinda sad
#i am NOT writing all this for ppl to take pity on me though
#that would be very much worse
#it's just to voice that opinion about 'cliques' and exclusion
#and listen you're free to have a tumblr friend group
#just don't make all of your public posts about that! there's group chats and private messages for a reason. use the more pls
#again i don't mean to sound salty or judgy or mean
#it's just an opinion
#it's just that this is kind of becoming the same social dynamic of real life
#and that's cool! it makes for a more realistic experience or whatever
#but for those who have trouble socially interacting in real life it's not fun
#end of rant and i actually kinda hope nobody reads this whole thing lol
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