#the asshole for pointing out that thats uh. a pretty fuckin transphobic sentiment my friend.

[snekdood]

dawg i was having a disagreement with a trans girl on reddit and she stopped responding which i was like. whatever. but then someone else responded to our convo thread and she was like "im being read in bad faith unu" and then the person responded "im sorry that happened to you" like i fucking punched her?????????? can yall maybe not infantalize trans women, reverse sexism isnt it.

#i was literally just trying to help her understand how saying that she gets validation from being mistaken as a trans guy basically #bc she's assuming shes looking more like a woman.... is like saying you think trans guys look like women. #like how was that her first assumption- when ppl mistake me as a trans woman i take it as them thinking i look like a woman or am trying #to be a woman. not that 'omg im totally looking more like a MAN because trans women LOOK LIKE MEN' thats literally the substance #of what she was saying. like. you dont know if that person is seeing you that way bc they think you look 'like a trans guy so basically #i look like like a woman' or if they think you're a trans guy and passing. either way it seems like an inherently negative experience #and then she went on about secondary sex characteristics to justify why she felt like it was fine to say whatever... girl shut up lmao #im not about to coddle you like these other weird (negative uncool version) ass queer ppl who treat you like a baby who can do no wrong #nah you're being transphobic. and maybe you dont realize it. so i wanted to help. #but god forBID you critique anything a trans woman does ig. fuck yall im so tired of these types of queer spaces. #she can go around saying 'omg i feel so validated that guy thought i was a trans man so that means i look like a woman !!! 😊' but im #the asshole for pointing out that thats uh. a pretty fuckin transphobic sentiment my friend.