#that includes basic personal information and not just immaterial concepts and/or perishable small talk

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pro-tip for guys (and girls too ig): if you want to catch someone’s interest, you need to make yourself knowable. not understandable. knowable. where are you from. how many siblings do you have. can you drive a stick. will you wear wigs. objective stuff

#- HK #that DOESNT mean have social media profiles out your ears #(​though if the girl in question is online-only that’s kind of a necessity) #it DOES mean have the time and skill to hold a meaningful conversation #that includes basic personal information and not just immaterial concepts and/or perishable small talk #this applies to making friends as well. people don’t feel close to you until they feel they know you personally #your family your hometown your major your dogs w/e #I know what the hottest pop star thinks about art and religion. I don’t #know what her dad does for a living #mobile