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#sometimes i see likes from ppl i know prob have diff opinions and i’m like aw yay you’re still here
fernstream · 4 months
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huge shoutout to anyone who follows me who disagrees with things i post sometimes. you are so real for tolerating more than one opinion in your spheres and i love you
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kinkyolivegarden · 6 years
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all the vday asks
i love you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1: Do you have a crush at the moment?
yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2: Have you ever been deeply in love?
i think so. 
3: Longest relationship you've ever been in?
2 years and counting!
4: Have you ever changed for someone?
I’m trying to unlearn some bad behavior, but that’s all!
5: How is your relationship with your ex?
w my first one: i hate him and he hates me but we’re civilw my second one: lmao we have each other blocked on instagram and she tried to send at least two diff people to guilttrip me about breaking up w her
6: Have you ever been cheated on?
i sure hope not!
7: Have you ever cheated?
nope!
8: Would you date someone who's well known for cheating?
i’d want to be just friends with them for a while first, so we could establish some healthy communication and security in the relationship, and then i’d see what i’d feel comfy with .
9: What's the most important part of a relationship?
communication!!! a relationship is nothing if you guys don’t talk to each other about your wants and needs!
10: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?
serious relationships! one time i tried to have a fling but when i was about 2 do the succ he suggested we watch sword art online and i sent him home
11: When you are dating someone do you believe in going on "breaks"?
i think it can be a rly healthy thing for ppl to take a small break from being in a relationship! we all have our own burdens and issues, and sometimes we need to deal with those by ourselves, and that’s okay! 
12: How many people have you ever hooked up with?
lmao no
13: What's one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?
i regret the entirety of both my relationships previous to this one tbh? my first bf i only went out with bc we were best friends and i didn’t want to lose him, but i was not at all ready to have a boyfriend. w my girlfriend, i just...yikes lol that was a bad time
14: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?
like 15 or 16 i guess? 
15: Do you believe in the phrase "age is just a number"?
i’ve only heard ppl say that when they’re being p*dophiles so like... no
16: Do you believe in "love at first sight"?
not rly tbh
17: Do you believe it's possible to fall in love on the internet?
not personally, but if other ppl can, thats rly cute and i support them!
18: What do you consider a deal breaker?
cheating, not respecting physical/emotional boundaries, murder probably
19: How do you know it's time to end a relationship?
i ended my last one bc she crossed physical boundaries so like? other than that idk
20: Are you currently in a relationship?
yeah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
21: Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?
i think so! 
22: Do you think people should date their friends?
yeah!! all of my partners have been friends! its a solid foundation for a relationship
23: How many relationships have you had?
3
24: Do you think love can last forever?
i think love starts as a feeling and stays as a choice. it doesnt always feel the same, but it grows with you, so it changes as you (and your partner/s) change!
25: Do you believe love can conquer all things?
its a pretty thought!
26: Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of?
LMAO no way!! my mom hates my partner but i hate my mom so she can suck it
27: If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?
Don’t date someone just because you’re expected to! Wait until you’re ready!
28: Do you think long distance relationships can work?
of course! they’re hard as fuck, but it can work!
29: What do you notice first about another person?
their walk, how they stand, speech patterns
30: Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual?
We Just Dont Know!
31: Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?
of course not! i’d be highkey hypocritical
32: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?
yup! it sucked hella!
33: Do you want to get married one day?
i think it sounds lovely! it’s gonna take me a few years to get fully comfortable with the idea (my parents r divorced, i’ve been engaged, so it’s made me a little skittish) but i think eventually, being married would be sublime
34: What do you think about getting your partner's name tattooed?
i personally wouldn’t do it, but if other ppl want to i think its rly cute
35: Could you be in a relationship without sex?
totes!
36: Are you still a virgin?
We Just Dont Know!
37: What's more important: Looks or personality?
Personality!
38: Do you enjoy love films?
tbh they only serve to make my heart ache
39: Have you ever given anyone/received roses?
yes!!!!!!!!!!!!! my partner has rose bushes all over their house and in the summer they give me roses and it’s the sweetest thing and i’ve saved all but one of them
40: Have you ever had a valentine?
my partner’s cat!
41: What's your imagination of a "perfect date"?
they take me to an art museum, we hold hands and whisper jokes to each other. they take pictures of me while i’m not looking; i return the favor. we kiss on the bus ride home and we’re in love.
42: Have you ever read "Romeo & Juliet"?
yREAHBOY HOWDY HAVE I 
43: What's more important: Your partner or your friends?
i consider my partner a friend, so, both!
44: Would you consider yourself "romantic"?
if u do an xray, u find me 2 be filled with pablo neruda sonnets
45: Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?
46: Have you ever been "friendzoned"?
nah thats a stupid concept
47: Which "famous couple" is your favorite?
that super gay king and his boyfriend what were their names?
48: What's your favorite love song?
oh i love so many,, The Way I Am by ingrid michaelson?
49: Have you ever broken someone's heart?
yeah probs
50: If you're single, why do you think you are?
i’m not :D 
51: Would you rather date someone who's rich but a douchebag or someone who's poor but a nice guy?
depends on how horny i am (nice guy)
52: Are you good at giving other people advices regarding dating/ relationships?
a little bit, ya! i think
53: Are you jealous of couples when you're single?
nah
54: How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on facebook)?
For me, its like? 6/10? 
55: Would you consider yourself "clingy", "overly attached" or "jealous"?
yeah i’m trying to work on it but im,,,, really fucking clingy
56: Have you ever "destroyed" a relationship?
i dont think so
57: Do you think it's silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?
No reason to consider suicide is a silly reason! Emotions are hella fucking hard to handle, and it doesn’t help when you  invalidate the people experiencing them.
58: Are you the "dominant" or the "submissive" part in a relationship?
okay everyone fucking thinks my boyfriend tops but I’M THE TOP YOU GUYS
59: Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner's birthday or your anniversary?
nope!
60: What's your opinion on open relationships?
I personally wouldn’t feel comfortable in one, but I think they’re a healthy way to experience love!
61: Who's more important: Your partner or your family?
Depends on the issue I guess? 
62: How do you define "cheating"?
If they do anything w/ romantic/sexual intent without clearing it w me first
63: Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?
Nope! Jerkin it is fun
64: Do you think Valentine's Day is overrated?
It’s capitalism but also i love roses
65: Would you consider yourself a "cuddler"?
yEAH holy shit yall i used to be so fuckin touch repulsed but now i die every time i’m not being held
#bunny mumbles
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