#so now main bf who is very close with bestie and knows about EVERYTHING is trying to be friends with his ex

[no-one-hears-me]

can't tell if this is a true bros before hoes moment or if I'm being unreasonable

#hard to explain in detail without like. using names and everything #also there's too many details if I gave the whole story #BASICALLY. quick recap. current main bf is my bestie's very good friend #bestie's ex cheated on him with 2 dudes? I think 2. and then they told him and he broke up with her obviously #after they broke up she tried convincing people that she did nothing wrong and he's evil and toxic and manipulative and whatever #including posting on every social media about it #even tho she literally had sex with multiple men while they were together... okay #also bestie is a sweetheart and very loyal and he would do anything for her so yk what she's saying about him isn't true #anyways. that was his only real relationship and so afterwards he had a lot of self esteem issues and trust issues and etc #he hasn't even tried dating anyone since then bc he doesn't want to anymore. bc of her #so now main bf who is very close with bestie and knows about EVERYTHING is trying to be friends with his ex #which is weird bc she blocked bestie and his other friends so idk how this dude is on good terms with her #but also. when your friend gets cheated on you're supposed to get mad and hate the ex. right? that's what most people do #I think it's weird and also kinda wrong to be friends with the ex after that #so I kinda like. don't wanna talk to this dude now bc I feel like he's disrespecting his good friend who also happens to be my good friend #my other friend got cheated on in a milder situation and all of his friends including myself stopped talking to his ex entirely #bc we don't like her we don't agree with her she's a horrible person etc #and the situation with bestie's ex was wayyyy worse I'm downplaying it and excluding details. she's evil #ALSO now that I think about it. bestie explicitly told this dude he wasn't allowed to talk to me and he still did #at first I didn't think it was a big deal but looking at it now? he just doesn't respect his friend huh #which I don't like bc that's my friend too wtf #yeah he's getting replaced I stand with bestie #Sera