#shoutout to y'all this is the only media-specific fandom i've ever been in that was like this

[angorwhosebabyisthis]

PSA: if you ever, ever feel the urge to make assumptions about the abuse history of a real ass person in a discussion about depictions of fictional abuse--in particular, any variation of the words 'you don't know/should learn what real abuse is'--

a) don't

b) you're a piece of shit

c) never ever ever fucking do that

d) step on legos for the rest of your life.

#whosebaby talks #the salt files #anti-survivor cw #people absolutely cannot fucking resist doing this ever #and the ones who go mask-off usually have some lovely things to say about how you should--in fact--*experience '''real''' abuse* #it happens over and over like clockwork every fucking time #this is a big reason i appreciate LL fandom these days so much because not one single person has done that #including when i'm talking on my own blog about characters they personally like #shoutout to y'all this is the only media-specific fandom i've ever been in that was like this #anyway hi i'm an abuse survivor and the next time someone says this shit to me i am posting screenshots with no names edited out #that's not something i'm in the habit of doing even about shitty takes that upset me deeply; but i am putting my foot down on this one #if you can't fucking behave about this basic bit of decency on the posts i make on--again--my own damn blog #and you don't want to get ripped into then block me and/or filter tags; and mind your own fuckin business #blog policy