#seen + like we actually had some common ground. bless my current flatmate i love her shes v sweet but i dont think she understands

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it's bullshit that the 3 nearest adhd support groups to me are all for parents struggling to deal with their adhd kids lmao

#the nearest adult one is over an hour away by train + currently indefinitely suspended but when thry start up again ill probs check it out #i think i just need like. a space where i can talk abt this shit with real people and likewise sympathise with them. solidarity #the adhd reddit isnt a terrible space but id rather it was an in person thing.. #kind of miss my old flatmates bc one of them had adhd too and while we didnt talk a whole lot we had a couple conversations where i felt- #seen + like we actually had some common ground. bless my current flatmate i love her shes v sweet but i dont think she understands #my mum has adhd and i like talking abt it with her bc she knows a lot of technical stuff from a psychological standpoint #and also sometimes she'll call me just to be like My Head Is Filled With Wet Cement Right Now and im like Yeah ❤️ #but I cant talk abt super personal things with her bc shes too closely emotionally involved and gets rly upset if im having a hard time #and i cant afford a therapist and dont think id get much out of it anyway i just want some kind of community !!!!!! #sorry for complaining sooo much today im just not feeling it girls. its ok tho im gonna go get some snacks from lidl #and hopefully i can do even just half an hour more of job apps when i get back and then maybe call it a day #oughf. #.diaries #.vent