#regardless of if theres a man in her lige

[kat-bots]

thinking so many thoughts about what I want from the future and wanting it all

#my best friend's other best friend has decided shes having children on her own #regardless of if theres a man in her lige #and its making me think a lot about what possibilities i havent even thought to entertain #also she and my best friend have semi seriously decided on living together in the future as platonic forever housemates #and generally making the found family trope real #and i have been included (despite only ever meeting this other woman once in my life) #theyre calling it the mommune #which makes me laugh so much #but i just. i think that sounds like such a full life. what a life overflowing with love and companionship #also on the practical side of things: its the only way any of us are ever affording a house #we gotta become a 4/5 incomes 1 or 2 kid household