#ppl tend to take you less seriously if you use a microlabel and i recognize mine is kinda unnecessary i suppose?

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i feel like the easiest way to describe my cupioromanticism is that i feel attraction in theory but not in practice

#i tend to not use the label lately because i don't want people to think i'm 'less gay' than anyone else for it yknow #i love the fictional and rhetorical but irl it just doesn't translate irl #i'd like to feel romantic attraction for someone some day but i just never have #i love men! just not any real ones rip #i tend to just not say i'm arospec these days despite the fact that i am because i just don't want the hassle yknow #ppl tend to take you less seriously if you use a microlabel and i recognize mine is kinda unnecessary i suppose? #marshal meows