#oh I will like it alongside the Joel/Aleksi fic I'm going to read in my retirement home^^

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I'm not going to write the joeleksi hurt fic but I can tell you about another scenario hjhj.

I was going to say maybe Joonas or Olli for this one but you can also imagine Joeleksi I guess, wkth his parents kind of refusing to treat him as an adult as soon as he lives at their place for a few days when he visits, e.g. saying he should go to sleep earlier (they saw the light on in his room late at night), and he should eat dinner with them (doesn't matter that he's not hungry right now), and who was he out with and what did they do and even now that he's here he's never here and he never calls them or invites them to his place, and is he sure he picked the right career (okay maybe not aleksi then, since his father's their manager) and doesn't he want to do courses somewhere to get some real qualifications, and it's so sad he didn't study law/medicine instead, and he should eat or drink this and that because it has a lot of x ingredient that c l e a r l y he needs more of, and so on and so on. So he's of course pissed off and angry and his vacation/visit isn't relaxing at all and he goes to vent to his friend about being treated like a child at x age etc. Not sure if that falls into your category of hurt but hey 🤔

(One day I will write my Olli vent fic but not anytime soon I think. I think you'll like it though, sometime in five years or so)

Naww, but Jess, why won't you do that for me :( (I'm joking).

Just throwing an idea out there, but idk, are you sure I should write this, and not you, who is literally going through all of this?😅

I mean most of this hits close to home, so I don’t know if I would even want to write this because thinking about all of it makes me angry and therefore not capable of getting it out without you know, feeling all that irritiation, and I’m rather the type to supress their feelings, thanks😄

Not to make this about Joeleksi, but I think with Joel having ADHD it’s easy for his parents to make him out to be a child who can’t live on its own and needs uncalled for comments and suggestions left and right (just this week I thought about some stuff my parents did with my brother where I thought wtf after years of being educated on that illness you should know better but I guess not, but also, not implying anything about Joel’s real parents here okay). But his friends definitely know what he’s capable of so whoever it is in this scenario would be great at comforting him and showing him that he indeed can do all on his own in case Joel starts doubting himself once the inital anger ebbs up.

But maybe Olli would be good too because he has graduated from uni (or the musical equivalent, y’all know what I mean), but then decides to be in a band, so there’s lot of friction it could create between him and his parents regarding his job choices and his future. And omg are you taking care of yourself on tour? Do you get enough to dink and eat? Are you safe in [insert country]?

Or also Joonas. Who has a personality that could be described as too girly by the generation before us, so his parents who never really understood him try to control him in other ways and never see him as the grown up person he is and think every choice he makes is the wrong one because in their eyes he doesn’t behave like an adult.

So many possibilities. Anyone hurt someone, please, thanks😊

#answered #oh I will like it alongside the Joel/Aleksi fic I'm going to read in my retirement home^^ #write the vent fic! #and I'm open for whatever kind of hurt #just give me hurt😅 #istfandomsgalore #your other aks is still in the workings I'm so sorry