#nost obvs being het and male and usamerican ones

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Positivity posts are great and all but i need to see some negativity posts in that same format more often

#also there are way too many positivity posts for stuff that doesnt need it #nost obvs being het and male and usamerican ones #but also the ones that go 'no ur not a shit person for ignoring all ur friends always' #like bro #i get it disabilities and chronic pain and fatigue and everything is hard #but you still have to put some effort in bcos its a relationship and not them being ur caretaker #idk its tiring seeing that specific one bcos like wtf do you mean sometimes u dont want to talk to ur bestie for months #like are they actually ur bestie or just some rando acquaintance u call that #i cant imagine not wanting to talk to someone i love and care for for that long #and i am pathetic friends wise bcos if one of the ones who just up and ghosted me returned after years and started talking to me again #i would just accept that and happily talk to them #or maybe i wouldnt idk