#no being pro kink doesn’t inherently mean you support raceplay for fucks sake

[boneless-mika]

If I listened to the anti-kink ppl I keep coming across I wouldn’t be allowed to have sex at all because the only instance I would is if I were fully clothed and nobody touched my genitals and possibly I’d need to wear gloves

#no being pro kink doesn’t inherently mean you support raceplay for fucks sake #87% chance the person who said that just hates kink in general #and are grouping things like impact play or the general concept of sadism/masochism with genuinely harmful stuff as unacceptable #like I think somno with prenegotiated consent is perfectly fine but is that actually too far and unethical? #what about pet play? do you think those engaging in it are zoophiles? it kind of sounds like you do #also you don’t entirely control what turns you on #I’ve been turned on by torture scenes ever since I was like 12 and it’s horribly distressing #I don’t think that makes me a bad person