#my nana would probably try to tell me i’m going thru a phase or smth

[babydarkstar]

genuine question if youre out to your parents: how did u do it and how did they react. should i sit them down or should i just casually bring it up in conversation. it’s a big deal to me so maybe i should emphasize that it’s a big deal

#hm. much to think about #if anyone wants to dm me abt this and tell me your story pls do #thinking about it makes me want to bang my head against the wall tbh #im just like. i need them to take it seriously i dont want to hear the offhanded jokes abt it #i also like. dont want them to feel like they need to keep it a secret #but id probably never tell my mom’s parents #my nana would probably try to tell me i’m going thru a phase or smth #and would also say that i’m a devil worshipper or something and that it’s not natural #ugh now im thinking about like. everyone else in my southern extended family………..kill me #im just tired of feeling like theres some big secret about myself #when im pretty sure my mom already knows LMFAO #mostly i just dont want them to be like. ‘what abt the time u had a crush on that guy’ #like yeah it was me forcing myself to find men attractive #anyways.