#my granny aunt (who is arguably my real grandma since the other two mistreat me/forget i exist) is sick

[mxwhore]

Sometimes hating is cathartic. Being a hater sometimes is within the natural range of emotions and it’s never good to repress those.

Take a moment to be a hater, and once it’s out of your system, reflect on the things you hated on. What did you hate on? Why did you hate on it? What about it made you hate on it? Is it something that is genuinely bad (i.e nazis) and deserves to be hated on? Or is the hating from personal preference, such as liking/disliking broccoli? Is the hating constructive toward your own emotional state?

Accept that hating is part of the Feelings soup.

Im just hating on some family members and my current state of being

#my granny aunt (who is arguably my real grandma since the other two mistreat me/forget i exist) is sick #so my mom and i are looking after her and her farm #thats not the thing that got me hating btw we luv her #her son fucking sucks #he is always ready to take advantage of her #he is currently in the beach living it big. he called her two days ago and when she told him he was feeling sick he started giving her shit #like its HER fault being 79 years old and running her own farm without help #so my nan hung up on him. one day later he called again all hugs and kisses saying he will be there for the weekend with all his family #which like GREAT except it isnt #because they have HER do everything and they will be prolly off to the village festival #so yeah #very angry very sad for my nan #hating on my current state of being is the usual tho lmao cant fix that just live with it #tessa answers! #also i slept like ass so