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#my first time telling someone irl I think of myself as nb rather than woman and boy did it well
annie-thyme
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you'd think that saying "this is not a point for debate, this is me telling you how I actually feel" would like. trigger at least an understanding if not an apology but no
#I just cannot believe honestly
#my first time telling someone irl I think of myself as nb rather than woman and boy did it well
#not go wrong exactly but rather baffling
#this is a very close friend I'm talking about and yeah in the end we settled on
#you can be whatever you wanna be
#but like
#taking it as a point for debate and a challenge just felt really weird
#- I rather think of myself as nb these days - but phYsiCalLy yOu'Re a wOmAn
#sigh
#- I'm definitely not a man but not a woman either - BuT yoU ARE a-
#BIG FUCKING SIGH
#so does it mean you're gonna change your pronouns now
#no I'm not changing them but that's not the point
#although that's in Russian only idc for Russian pronouns but hey I'd love to be addressed as they/she in English bc it feels right I think
#anyway after I repeatedly stressed the that's how I feel now point of conversation I got a 'sure you can be whatever u want'
#so we're okay now I think
#still feels so fucking weird
#gender
#ah fuck it I'm not done here
#it honestly makes me not want to talk about it to any other ppl in my life it feels so discouraging
#bc this friend is the first fiend I ever came out to as bi
#and all the support I got back then I just
#didn't even have the slightest trepidation I just said it bc it just came up in the conversation
#and that reaction was like a slap in the face and like oh
#Oh
#is this transphobia
#even though I'm not trans???
#and I know I know I'm not doing nonbinary wrong bc there is no wrong way to be nb
#yet I catch these thoughts here and there and have to shut them down
#which is not something I was going for!! I'm outta tags turns out you cannot rant for more than 30 oh well
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