#maybe policing and shaming real queer women for ''glorifying abuse'' or whatever the fuck

[lith-myathar]

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#legit though part of why i often find myself more interested in m/f ships is two-fold #a) they still have women in them and b) m/f ships are allowed to be. well. fucked up for lack of a better word #like my god there were people losing their shit about shadowzel and saying it was wrong to ship it #when frankly it's a very tame example enemies to lovers even though we like to joke about ''toxic yuri'' #but there's fuckin discourse about it because istg there's this weird attitude that f/f ships need to be Pure or whatever the fuck?? #have y'all ever known lesbians irl??? wlw are every bit as screwed up as everybody else #and yes positive rep is important but i think queer women ESPECIALLY should be allowed to tell the stories they want to tell #without members of their own community jumping down their throats and telling them they're morally bankrupt #because their ship isn't all soft sunshine and rainbows and equal power dynamics and Correct Thinking On The Issues #maybe policing and shaming real queer women for ''glorifying abuse'' or whatever the fuck #(when most of the time they aren't even doing that!!!!) #is the actual negative impact here