#love you all tons! i hope you’re having a good day 🫂🫶

[calamitydaze]

long tag ramble below u have been warned

#ok i feel like i should say Something before i start being active again #but i dont want it to be a Statement which is why i’m putting it in the tags #(also bc i procrastinated doing this for weeks so i know this is a very stale topic by now #but i also haven’t been on tumblr literally at all so this is 100% my organic authentic opinion lmao) #so read if you gaf and ignore if you don’t #anyway: george def could’ve done more to ensure she was comfortable #and as someone who has also gotten in over my head with older men and regretted it #her hurt is valid and i’m deeply sorry she feels the way she does about that night #but with that said i see no reason to believe george Should have known how she really felt #or that he deliberately took advantage of either her youth/inexperience or her discomfort #and that’s the most important thing for me— he fucked up and misread a situation but that doesn’t make him an evil person #and i hope they can both move on and grow and heal #as for my future in the fandom: i honestly dunno how active i’ll be going forward #i was already becoming pretty disconnected so this might’ve just sped up the process? i’m tired of being put through the wringer #but i also don’t really have a fandom to replace this so i might just continue casually participating in the way i have been #either way rest assured i will never become a rabid anti. that shits embarrassing #i got HORRIBLE drolo rsd the other day when tommy’s mom needed clout and vagued him so like if nothing else. droloisms are forever #also as a last thing— this feels kinda silly and self centered to say but i will anyway #sorry for not opening up my blog as a forum for discussion again the way i did with the drituation #i know i helped a lot of people sort out their feelings and that was (and is) really really important to me #but it also tanked my mental health (mostly as a result of the fallout and not the act itself but still) #plus my life irl was pretty stressful at the time when everything was first going down #so i just didn’t feel up to putting myself through that again #but i’m sorry if anyone wanted to discuss w me but wasn’t able to #anyway. i think that’s all i have to say! #i don’t want to turn this into a capital D discussion but as always my askbox and dms are open #love you all tons! i hope you’re having a good day 🫂🫶 #bella talks

[yourdaddyfigure]

Hi hi ☺️

It’s been a little while so I thought I’d give you a little job update! I’ll finally be done with all my training courses this week so I’ll be able to actually be out doing my job and figuring things out in real time which will be nice (:

There are little surveys that get sent to random clients that have been helped throughout the day that basically ask how satisfied you were with the employee and it gets pretty detailed and they rate you and the experience in a bunch of different areas. They are constantly monitored and taken very seriously. (As the lead I see everyone’s scores and our averages as a whole and have to make action plans to improve our numbers each month)

I got recognized by my managers boss (our regional manager) for getting 2 perfect 10 scores and a 9 within the first week and a half of helping clients which felt so good ☺️

Definitely have a TON to learn to be able to do my job as a lead/supervisor which is still stressful but I’m getting the basics down and it’s nice to be recognized for working so hard and doing so well so quickly 😄

Sorry for the book 😅 As always I love seeing you on my feed, I hope you are doing well 🥰

Hello hello 🫶🏼🥰

It has been a little while, and as always, I’m glad to hear from you, my friend! Always hyped for my updates on life! I’m so proud of you for getting through all the training! I already know you’re going to do amazing! You've got this!

Oh wow, you have a really important role in your team, that’s for sure. It sounds very intimidating at first, but I believe you’ll handle it with flying colors. I’m seriously so happy for you that you really went out of your comfort zone and are moving on to bigger and better things!

And of course you did! Because you’re simply that damn awesome, 😎😌 I’m telling you! You've got this!!!!

Everything takes time and effort. As long as you’re trying and putting in the time, you’re only going to get better. That goes for everything in life. So keep doing what you’re doing, and I promise you’ll not only learn what you need to learn but even more! 🥰

Please, there’s no need to apologize. I do apologize for getting to this a little late tho,😅 but as always, the feeling is mutual, and I hope you have an amazing weekend ahead of you! As always, please stay safe and sending hugs. 🫂

#malakai’s ask #midnight970-3

[mebiselfandi]

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8L2LM7G/

Here is a Christmas themed one 🫶🏼 I'm imagining u wrapped in a lil blanket munching on gingerbread cookies and watching ur fave Christmas movie 🥹

HIIII VAL🥰👋👋

This one was so so much fun like you wouldn’t believe it I love it sm

1. It was kinda hard picking cause all the houses look so pretty but the last one looks kinda pink also it looks like it has tons of rooms to read and snuggle in which is perfect for christmas and just general meb activities

2. I’m actually allergic to raw bananas so I’d swap them out for something else like mango. During Christmas my breakfast looks a lot like that, pancakes, muffins, tea, fruits, sausages, eggs. Best time ever

3. I’m actually into very “spooky” vibe kinda settings. Like if you watched the chilling tales of Sabrina? Or halloweentown but darker. Those vibes with the spooky music and the slighlty witchy off vibe are just so chefs kiss to me. I’d probably be super stressed if I lived there irl but oh my gosh I can look at the aesthetic. Anyways the last two were very much giving magical bath where I read my book but I’m very clumsy and I will drop it in so option two is better cause I have somewhere to put my book, also, CANDLES🕯️

4. The boots and jacket I chose are so cute I wish I actually had them. If it’s cold enough, I’d probably layer a hoodie under the jacket for extra warmth. Probably a white one

5. The earmuffs!?? I want them so bad now! They’re so pretty. Also the heart brown scarf is the one I’d probably buy but for the sake of the outfit, gotta go with the white scarf which I also think looks super cute/chic

6. Although I’d love to go ice skating, I’d probably fall soooo many times and not get to skate very much. Plus building a snow,an would be so fun. I’ve never seen snow before so we’d have so much fun customizing it

7. I am suuuuch a baker during Christmas. All out. Cake, cookies, muffins, tart, etc. so I couldn’t pick just one option. I have a butter biscuit recipe which I only use exclusively on Christmas and gosh they’re so good

8. I’ve actually only watched frozen 2 and the home alone movies from this list. And now I barely even remember the home alone movies just vague parts so really it’s just frozen. But polar express has been on my watch list for a while now so either that or how the grinch stole Christmas (which I half watched half asleep when I was like 8)

Anyway this was so cute oh my gosh! Thanks for the ask Val! I hope you’re having a great day bby🫂💕

Also…only if you want though👉👈 you wanna climb under my blanket and eat cookies with me?

#my beautiful rose🌹