#like man im 32 years old and I Am Tired these days yall do whatever

[khayr]

anyway. I just think that it’s totally fucked that it’s even still called discourse when it was just. nasties in our own community talking shit and spouting vitriol about our identities and lived experiences as if there aren’t parallels all over the place between us all. The fact that so many ace/aro people felt like they had to a) out themselves or b) share their personal trauma with strangers on the internet just to be taken seriously (or not, even) is just so fucked. the whole thing was fucked. there is so much nuance to human gender and sexuality and it just was not fair what they did to us lmfao

#I used to really fight to make sure that people online and irl knew I WASNT straight and like. I just gav eup tbh #people can think whatever they want it doesnt matter to me anymore #my own parents went 'we dont really get it but we just want you to be happy' which was sort of nice but #when i later got married my mom confessed she 'had been worried i would just be alone my whole life' #which like. thanks but also thats not.................................. yeah #as if being ace doesnt color and affect my entire relationship on a daily basis #in some way or another #like man im 32 years old and I Am Tired these days yall do whatever