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[smellslikeleftoversenses]

Concerning Behavior from Lavenoor

Ngl, the author of It's a Pain to be a Prince, lavenoor, is the worst kind of self righteous person I have seen in a while.

They talk about how people that romanticize yandere content are terrible and should seek help, but condemn the ones that use it as a tool to cope by doing so. Telling them to seek help and that, "They should at least keep it on their personal device -- not published online." Basically telling them that their method of sharing their experiences is morally wrong. They talk about how they care about the victims but ignore the ones that write and “romanticize” yandere content just because they personally don't like the coping mechanism. The way they talk lumps some victims in with actual fetishizers and feels super demonizing because of how 'I'm holier than thou' their whole post feels.

The whole point of sharing their way of coping is so they have control over the situation again in a safer environment and sharing this can possibly help others. It's true not everyone will like this but lavenoor has no right telling these victims what they can and cannot do to help with their own pain. While lavenoor is right that some people do take fiction and make it their reality in the worst ways possible, this is not true for every single person. Again, lavenoor's post feels like their word is gospel and everything else is wrong because they said so.

Overall it feels self righteous and it just leaves me feeling unpleasant over all.

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[kuric]

WOUAHHHG I FINALLY MADE THE MIRIAM FANARTTT HSHYWHEEHHEAH

this took like 3 hours but it was totally worth it i had so much fun. i love miriam so much 😤😩 i just want to see more of her please someone get her out of the basement!!1

Here's crappy doodle of miriam annoying an androgynous reader

Also I have no idea if she even wears a witch get up, i can't remember which chapters she's in and i can't tell from the titles 😔 i don't have energy to reread to scour for info on her so if anyone knows any extra details about her appearance pls tell!!

*in the voicee of lightning guy* YOU SHOULD FOLLOW @violets-dreamscape NOW!!1

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[eli-my-beloved]

and now, i present to you,this blog's masterpiece...

... the scrunkly—scrimblo—scronkle—eeby deeby chart.

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[lebowskismoney]

@violets-dreamscape

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[justvsma110bsession]

Me: I’m going to be productive today, a have a lot of motivation and energy, why not use it?

Also me: *intensely stalking Violet’s Tumblr*

(Srsly, I have people over, and I’m bored soo-)

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[reiboom90]

A sketch of @eli-my-beloved 's villain au mc

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[smellslikeleftoversenses]

I just wanna say I know everyone is being really harsh to you, and you like made an account where anonymous and that such,

I apologize in advance English is not my first language:

I have to kinda agree one some parts. I don’t personally I have all the facts really but it’s just I think they poor alit if heart into their writing but I don’t want to express my love for it cause I’m literally gotten to the point where I’m terrified of them verbally or I guess text??? Berating me for it? I think their work really is lovely! But sometimes when they just say certain things it just rubs me all sorts of wrong or when they threaten to stop writing all the time a small part of me gets annoyed and goes “Okay stop then. Like stop. Calm down.” Now I do think we have to place ourselves in their shoes I mean having a fic that’s pretty popular and trying to address lots of issues (I really do like the issues they address within their books) but it’s gotten to the point where every post is just them berating something some did which most are totally valid points in being upset like yeah- But…I dunno I guess I get the vibe your feeling. And looking at your comments and the way the immediately started attacking you just…ew. Idk. I feel like alotof this about Lav has been popping up lately! And I feel that it’s totally valid they give me the same vibes as ah- some of the other writers I follow though so I feel they are just passionate? But every time they pop up on my page I kinda just go “ehhhh” cause it’s another complaint or a threat to stop writing. As for the “lumping them in” part. Idk I haven’t been keeping up I mostly read their authors notes and comments. And honestly I do feel that way. I almost felt shamed for liking their book? In a way? Which was so weird to read and like feel I’m sure that wasn’t there intention but I guess what this whole essay is trying to say.

Tldr: I don’t want you to think your alone in the view but I personally as like just an individual have seen this style of interaction before and I get it I get the view and appreciate what they’re trying to address but…It’s like they hate their own book or something idk and the way they immediately came on like “OMG THEY MADE A WHOLE ACCOUNT LOL” yeah. Cause they knew they would get that type of reaction and the internet is like that, it’s a place to express ya know?

Idk what I’m rambling about but uh yeah.

Thank you for this comment, it means a lot. You are right, the whole reason I made a different account was because I knew I would be blocked and harassed right away, as you have seen in the replies. My intention was never to harrass or demean them, so their reaction feels very unjustified. I don't disagree with some of their opinions, but the way Lavenoor is going about it seems unhealthy manner. I'm honestly worried about their mental health with the way they are going about things. I also fear people may get hurt if things continue this way.

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[kuric]

FIGHT! FIGHT!! FIGTH! Alistair vs beau is basically brit bitch vs french furry

Yes beau speaks in cursive. I've been trying out a bunch of diff styles recently and giving myself whiplash in the process.

PS: I'm gonna draw princes (especially alastair) in dresses next so if anyone has cool dresses they like or requests for certain princes i'd def be up to trying it out!

the first scenario is from this post by @violets-dreamscape

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