#it's not a phase to grow out of once you become a 'Real' transman.

[moe-broey]

Punk DIY is so fucking funny like. Imagine a punk jacket. Imagine a battle vest. Okay. I really want to mimic that but in my own way to make it my own obviously. The reason I want to do this is because I want to look Sharp. I want to have some Bite to me. Okay. Okay.

Then you see someone with crocheted patches and sewing buttons and it's a lot closer to how you tend to use fabric and literally have quilts as part of your jacket blanket-stitched and everything and you're like.

Literally it's all okay actually. Punk DIY fashion is just doing whatever you want however you want to forwver. You don't even have to look the part tbh you just gotta fight.

#punk tag #like. i guess i always still worry about being too soft. too cutesy. i need an edge i need some grit. #batesian mimicry ass motherfucker HAHAHAHA #which isn't to say anything about my love for punk is disingenuous. #more and more it represents everything that i am and everything i would like to be. #idk i guess if you're a tguy worried about being soft you have two options. #go to the gym or start putting spikes on all your shit!!!!!!!! 💥💥💥🔥🔥🔥🔥 #all my love for the softboys though. i do gotta say that. i was once like that too. #it's not a phase to grow out of once you become a 'Real' transman. #but if it ever feels stifling you can always try something new. and you have many options. #i think going punk has been like. the natural evolution of being a gnc trans man. for me 👍

[2littlecats]

the female experience of going through a phase of being a transman to escape the experiences of seeing men's feelings and concerned taken seriously when you're just asked if your period started/brushed off, going to a doctor with serious concerns and being told that you don't have adhd/autism/whatever else disorder diagnosis is given to men who have it on a silver platter and that you just have [insert mood disorder like bipolar or depression here or told "it's just trauma"] because you're an overemotional female and only men get Serious Disorders like that so you get to struggle undiagnosed longer, having everyone comment on your new boobs once you hit puberty and the endless comments on how you're a woman now and your tits are getting soo big even though you're 12 and want to still play with your toys and game and enjoy childhood innocence but everyone won't stop commenting on your body growing so you try to hide it to stop the sexualization of a little girls body, your father treating you weird after you become a teen and he starts making comments on your new body that make you uncomfortable and you can't yet explain why, grown men staring you down and making sexual comments about your 12 year old body, 30 year old men on the internet finding out you're an underaged girl so they start trying to groom you and tell you about how they want to take your virginity and rape you and use you for breeding, becoming interested in a hobby that happens to be male dominated and having people never take you seriously and ask you if you're doing it to try and impress a guy, accuse you of thinking you're special for liking it when you never thought you were and you just wanted to enjoy the hobby, every guy in said hobby either hating you for "invading" his sausage fest playground or trying to fuck you for being a Walking Hole who Likes Thing I Do and he's Never Met A Girl Like You Before because he doesnt talk to women in general or consider them humans with interests only holes waiting for Him. you knowing a girl or being the girl that was raped and everyone tells you shes a liar and a slut and nothing ever happens to him because anything bad a Male is accused of is a horrible life ruining false accusation even though no one cares and defends him always, your anger being seen as cute and fiesty or annoying. never feared or taken seriously like men's. never taken seriously like a man. you seek comfort from your mother and she essentially tells you welcome to the real world.

#detrans #radical feminism #radblr #terfblr #terfs interact #feminism #misogyny