#it’s not about being perfect or perfectly healed or conventionally hot

[shishiikura]

The internet is full of convoluted dating advice about all the hoops to jump through and requirements to meet in order to be eligible for love and like so much of it is crap cuz people are not willing to admit that it’s mostly luck lmao

#it’s not about being perfect or perfectly healed or conventionally hot #like you may get more prospects or opportunities but that doesn’t guarantee you anything #like it’s not about good enough not good enough it’s right place right time right person #and ppl do not want to admit that!! they want it so badly to be within their control #cuz putting in so much effort for possibly nothing is a hard pill to swallow #we want ppl to beat themselves up over whatever they feel makes them unworthy when it’s NOT ABOUT THAT #so don’t fall for it #liv rants