#incidentally. yes thats why im in the living room instead of my room lmaoooo

[ljuerlav]

how do you ask your roommate to leave surfaces generally in a clean and working order. not even talking about clutter but like oil and grime and shit

#he is my age. at the throats of parents who dont teach their male children to clean #god knows im not perfect at this but at least i have immense social anxiety about putting my own obstructive messes in front of other peopl #id like to state for the record that im not angry or upset over this . just frustrated that im doing a) more home maintenance work than him #and b) more home maintenance work than i did living on my own #and im like 2-3x as busy. get 2-3x less sleep. developing stress conditions etc etc #he does stuff when i ask him to in a good enough kinda way but also i hate asking 👍👍👍👍👍 i hate asking so fucking bad #this close to asking him to just hire a cleaning service on his weeks to clean despite the fact that he makes like almost half of what i do #augh #anyway im fine . ive been crocheting a project due at the end of the month for 4 hours straight sitting on the living room carpet #id sit on my couch but like i have a thing about touching peoples beds and hes asleep on it half the time 😭 #incidentally. yes thats why im in the living room instead of my room lmaoooo #ugh ok anyway anyway. ''you live like this?'' yes sorry i just need to talk to him but our schedules are really incompatible l #and im always the one pestering him about stuff like hes never asked me to do anything . so i feel bad. this is my own fault. i know this #just need to complain somewhere because my ass is numb lol this isnt a cushiony carpet