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zatyrlucy · 3 years
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I don't know what to say. In moments like this, I realize how good I have it with my own family. But be aware that you are a great person you can not choose your family but at least the people who are youre friends. Maybe your family doesn't see how great you are, but there are enough people who are grateful that you are a part of there life.
I have found in my life a lot of people who are very lucky. Even friends that have lost their dad or mom get to surprise me because they are still able to be happy with the rest of their family. Or people whose parents are divorced but its “not a big deal” because those parents keep loving their sons/daughters so much. My family is complete and together...so why they are so broken and toxic?? I will never understand that. I guess some people dont know to appreciate their blessings. 
A quote that I’ve heard is that in your whole life you have two families, the one you are born with and the one you choose, and when one fails, the other takes its place. It has been clear for me since long ago that my biological family is the one who bailed so almost always its up to the people I have randomly met to help me when Im in trouble (and they have made a better job, heck, even the internet have proved me that). Maybe thats why I get so damn happy when I make other people laugh or smile or get calm. Thays why Im glad I have made people happy with this blog or when I hang out with mutuals in real life. I feel more peaceful that way and I thank you for reminding me that. Remind me that you dont have to depend on your obligated family to be happy. 
But Im also gonna tell you what I’ve told to all those who I have met who have the blessing of a happy beautiful family, because is not the first time I tell my story and they look at me with big eyes without knowing what to say. Dont take them for granted, love them, dont ignore them. Hug your parents, hang out with your siblings, visit your grandma/grandpa, talk to your aunts/uncles, etc Do what I will never be able to do. Do that, and you will help me plenty. 
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nebulawriter · 5 years
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Avengers Endgame: Spoilers Review
SPOILERS SPOILERS SPOILERS YOU HAVE NO EXCUSE IF YOU HIT THE READMORE AND YOU GET SPOILED
How about we break this down by character/group, in order of movie release: 
Iron Man--So, our dear Tony was clearly the center of this story, which makes all the sense given that Robert Downey Jr. was key in creating THE LARGEST MOVIE FRANCHISE EVER. This movie was all about saying goodbye to the hero we’ve come to know and love and the legacy he left behind. I am going to point to ONE misstep, in that his argument with Cap near the beginning felt forced. I’m not mad that they HAD that argument, but it was just kinda weird. I feel like there are other things he could have blamed Cap for (like not taking out the Mind stone immediately when he had the chance.)but other than that solid as hell. I’m glad he got 5 years with his wife and daughter in bliss. I’m glad Pepper was the one who talked him into saving people. I’m glad he got some measure of reconciliation with his father in the past. And I’m glad he ultimately sacrificed himself, quite honestly, because thats what Tony is all about. He can’t just sit back when he knows there’s something he can do about it. He knew and Pepper knew, that he would keep going until he got taken out. And thats what he did. 
Favorite moments: Kinda adopting Nebula and caring for her (and her caring for him), “I love you 3000″, making Pepper her own suit. 
The (In)Credible Hulk: So he felt like the writers saw the meme of the credible hulk and just. went with it? Don’t get me wrong, I’m glad that Hulk and Bruce seem to have been re-intigrated, but I was really hoping for more like. emotional story with that? Oh, and I guess we just forgot about the Bruce/Nat relationship? Im not upset, but ok. I just. I want more hulk movies guys. DAMN YOU UNIVERSAL!!!
Thor: Wow I have such mixed feelings here. On the one hand, yes, I am happy they made Thor the comic relief guy here, because Chris Hemsworth is all about that. he’s good at it. On the other....whooo boy, not a huge fan of the fat jokes? But more importantly I cannot believe that over the course of 5 years, Valkyrie, Tony, Steve, Hulk, and a number of other characters, all who’ve had their own mental crises, would just leave Thor alone in his clinical depression and alcoholism. I can’t and won’t buy it. 
Captain America: Steve’s story was very possibly perfect. I’d have to think about it more But It Was Good. And had a lot of great moments. I’m happy his resolution is off having a happy life back with Peggy. I would watch a tv show about Cap and Peggy doing undercover heroics and Shield stuff while trying to keep his identity a secret. Imagine him actually knowing lil baby Tony. He also had great moments, handing the shield to Falcon, his shield breaking on Thanos’ sword, Using the HAMMER!!! The Elevator Scene (Hail Hydra) Fighting himself, “I can do this all day” “Yeah, I know.” “Don’t do anything stupid until I get back” “How can I? You’re taking all the stupid with you?” The fact he was hosting therapy sessions. I just. I love him. So Good. 
Avengers (Hawkeye): Hawkeye was my least favorite part. I totally called that his family would be taken and he’d be crushed but he went FULL PUNISHER and we kinda just...glazed over that??? Hmph. I found his story boring and annoying. 
Guardians of the Galaxy: Rocket was fun, but Nebula was the real mvp here. It was wonderful seeing her be with people who cared about her, and actually develop a conscious. More than that we got to see her past to compare. Its fun getting to see how far we’ve come. And hey, we got Gamora back! Sort of! That’ll be interesting to explore in Guardians 3.
Avengers (Black Widow): I was....disappointed in her story and plot. She was trying to hold the Earth together, but I just. I don’t know. I was disappointed with her death. If more characters died, ok, but. Hmph. Her hair was cool though.
Ant Man: So Scott was here mostly for le Plot, but I’m ok with that. His scene with Cassie was adorable. I am such a sucker for the dad/daughter stuff I can’t. I wonder if Michael Peña got Thanos’d. 
Doctor Strange: He continues to be coolest as weird exposition character. I reject Tilda Swinton’s claim he’s the ‘best of them all’ but sure. He certainly has a flair for the dramatic entrance. And we got to see all the wizards!!!!
Spider-Man: MY ADORABLE BABY BOY! So, I guess most of his class got zapped? That’ll be fun to see. He was still funny swinging through the battle with the infinity gauntlet. And he was there for Tony’s death. I hope he gets to know Morgan.
Black Panther: I could watch Chadwick Boseman shouting war cries to his army of elite wakanda soldiers forever man. I just. I love it. My Dude.
Captain Marvel: I could have used more of her, but I get it. She was busy. Though a throwaway line of “I can’t come on your time heist because if I’m dealing with Space War, but whatever, that feels implied. I know the scene of all the mcu ladies coming to back her up was totally pandering but ASK ME IF I CARE because I DONT it was BEAUTIFUL. 
Ok, last notes. I haven’t talked much about the cinnamontography (tm) but I wish not as much of it was cgi’d. The fight scenes and stuff were great, but some of the simpler stuff that was spliced together to avoid spoilers was overkill. The movie did alright, but I think it could have gotten in the way. 
Oh yeah, and Loki’s out there somewhere now, huh? How does that work?
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iiamnickjonas · 6 years
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Nick Interview Shantal
Title: Shantel Interview
People Involved: @ffsvansanten
shantel: Welcome to this Interview Nick let’s start with an easy one.  » What are your hobbies or interests?
Nick: I love to play sports, especially soccer and baseball. Me and my brothers used to have a baseball team for when we were on the road called ironically roaddogs. I’ve also recently took up cooking. I can’t make anything fancy but I’m working my way up slowly but surely.
shantel: That sounds super exciting ! what do you cook ?
Nick: At the moment I make a pretty good spaghetti and meatballs everything made from scratch even though I can’t take credit for the recipes because they are my grandmother’s and my meatballs tend to be a little on the dry side but you don’t notice it after a glass of wine or two. -chuckles-
shantel: Well i’d love to try it someday. so you better invite me - laughs- okay let’s go to my second question. 2. » Who was your best friend when you were growing up? Are they still your friend? If not, why aren’t they now? Who’s your best friend now?
Nick: Next time I’m cooking I’ll make sure you’re the person i call. My best friend was and still is my brothers. I’ve always been close to them especially Joe. I love Kevin and Frankie just as much as I love Joe but we just have a special bond.
shantel: Well i can’t wait to try it! i am honored. That sounds really cute and amazing. it’s good to have a special bond with your brothers. family is always important. I don’t know what to do without my family. Let’s go to my third question. 3. » How do you handle anger? Are you slow to anger or easy to annoy? Are people afraid of you, and if so is this justified?
Nick: I try not to be but I can get easily annoyed it’s hard not to annoy me. It’s definitely a trait of mine that I’m working on.  I think people are after seeing the muscles I’ve gained since after being on my show Kingdom.
shantel: It’s never fun to get annoyed but it happend to all of us i don’t like seeing people angry or annoyed makes me wanna calm them down.  so my next question is. What goal do you most want to accomplish in the next six months?
Nick: A goal of mine I’d like to accomplish in the next 6 months is to finish my next album and release it, I know my fans have been patiently waiting for it. And I am so eager for them to listen to the next part of my journey.
shantel: Sounds exciting. if i am honest i am super excited aswell - laughs- Let’s make this next question a little bit more personal. don’t worry it’s not to personal but it is about your little old self. If you could say one thing to your younger self what would it be ?
Nick: One thing I would tell my younger self not be so discouraged by rejection it’s a part of life and each rejection only opened a new door and thought me something new along the way. I wouldn’t be as successful or humble as I am without the rejection I faced over the years.
shantel: That’s the best advice i have ever heard and i’m sure if your younger self could hear this he would be so much stronger. but you are already a strong person don’t forget that. Let’s go back to your work What is the craziest thing you’ve ever done for your job ? you don’t have to go in specific details of course you may whatever feels comfortable for you
Nick: The craziest thing I’ve ever had to do for a job had to be portraying a closeted gay person for my show Kingdom. It definitely was hard to get into a mentality of not being able to share who I really am to friends and family since in reality I can’t imagine hiding stuff that Nate had to hide from his father from my own parents and brothers.
Nick: But it gave me a wonderful insight on how the LBGQT community goes through on a daily and it kind of makes me want to work harder for them to live a normal life like the rest of us.
shantel: Oh wow, i can imagine how crazy but super hard that must have been because it is something people deal with daily. I love hearing you say that you have a wonderful insight on the lbgqt commutity goes through things. i love it. since we talk about amazing communities and being an example for someone or something. Who is your role model, and why?
Nick: My role model is probably going to be a cliche but it’s my father. He has never let us give up on our dreams even when we practically were bankrupt and me, Joe and Kevin had to share a room and we had this tiny apartment. And when i was in beauty and beast as a kid every day my dad would drive the 2-3 hours there and back to New York so I could get to rehearsals. Just recently he went through cancer treatments and surgery. he’s always had so much strength and courage. He’s an amazing father i hope one day I’m half the father he is.
shantel: I am not gonna lie to you that answer made me a little emotional - laughs- you have such a beautiful family. Oh wow Cancer treatments and surgery how is he doing now ?
shantel: my next question is Do you see yourself settling down in the next 5 years ?
Nick: He’s in remission now. Thanks for asking. The day we found out was probably the scariest and worse moments of my life.
Nick: I definitely do. I was pretty close with my ex girlfriend but I don’t think I’m ready just yet but I see my brother with his daughters and whenever I’m with them I get an inkling of when I have my own kids and I can’t wait for it.
shantel: I can imagine how scary that must have been. and yes i feel you whenever i see my friends getting married or having kids i am like i want that aswell and im not the youngest anymore but it’s a huge dream of mine. If you look back on your Jonas Brothers life, what do you think was the best moment and what was the least moment ?
Nick: Best moment with my brothers has to be hands down getting to perform for Stevie Wonder I mean performing for the president was great and the awards were pretty cool. But growing up in a household when Stevie Wonder was the music of choice 90 percent of the time it was like a dream come true for me and my brothers. It’ll be a moment I cherish forever there are times I go back on youtube and re watch because I don’t believe it actually happened. Least favorite moment was the day I told my brothers that I think we should end the band. I will never forget the words that they said and angry looks on their faces. The guilt sometimes still eats at me.
shantel: Oh wow Stevie Wonder he is a legend and i am such a big fan so i’m jealous of you guys performing for him.
shantel: we sadly have arrived at my last question which is : How would you convince people to follow their dreams ?
Nick: Just go for it, it’s as simple as that. If you want to become a writer grab a computer or notebook and start writing it might be sucky at first but no one is good in the beginning. I mean Kevin didn’t even want to be a musician the only reason he learned guitar was because he was sick and bored at home so he picked it up and started to teach himself. I think the worse thing in the world isn’t having your dreams come true but having not trying for your dreams at all.
shantel: such amazing advice, i am sure people who will read this will be ready for their dreams to come true. Thank you so much for this wonderful interview. it was such a honour to meet you and talk to you. and success in life
Nick: Thank you.
Nick: (All right you ok if we do mine now? Even though I’m strangely nervous)
shantel: (sure we can i am brb im switching from computer to phone. don’t be nervous love)
Nick: (yours was so good though, that’s fine just let me know when you’re ready. I’m so glad we are getting this over today I’m busy for the rest of week.)
Shantel (shantel) joined the chat 23 seconds ago
Shantel joined the chat 23 seconds ago
Nick: Welcome to this Interview Shantal let’s start with question number 1. Where did you grow up and how did you grow up, for example mom, dad, siblings?
Shantel: hey thank you so much for having me. I grew up in Luverne Minnesota with my 2 siblings one brother and one sister who I am very close with and of course my amazing parents Who mean the world to me
Nick: You grew up very similarly as I did. Are your brother and sister in the entertainment industry as you are. If not you don’t have to go into details what they do if they want to be kept private.
Shantel: No They arent in the entertainment world like I am , I am the only one Who works there
Shantel: But They do help me with my lines
Shantel: When I have to study them
Nick: It’s great you have such a supportive family you need that in this industry. Now let’s go to the next question shall we, 2. What is the biggest thing you learned from living with your family to living on your own?
Shantel: What I have learned while living with my family is first of all How to be independent and How to do stuff on my own but dont forget the fact I also learn How to take care of younger kids. It Will be hands for in the future
Shantel: Living on my own learned me to see the world differently
Shantel: From my point of view and Not from my parents point of view
Nick: I can see what you mean, you get a sense of your true self when you’re on your own. All right question 3. I know you’re most famous for your role for One Tree Hill but other than that character what’s another role you’re proud of and wish more people knew about?
Shantel: Exactly Thats What I meant to say. I do am mostly know as Quinn from One Tree Hill but people are also startimg to notice me as Patty from the Flash so that makes me super happy
Nick: I have to say sadly I have yet to see Flash but with my busy schedule I don’t get time to watch television but I’ll make sure it’s next for me to watch. Question 4 is a bit of a deep question but I would love to know your opinion or thoughts; There is a big controversy with marijuana how do you feel about it do you think it should be legalized?
Shantel: I personally dont feel comfortable around drugs but I think Its should only be legal for medicine and painkillers Not for people with addictions or people Who Wanna use it for a fun time. So maybe They only get it on a note from a doctor or something
Nick: That’s how I feel about it, it just saddens me there will be people who will take advantage of that situation. Let’s move on to something more happier I hope with question 5. Favorite Childhood memory or memories, because I’m sure it would be hard to choose just one.
Shantel: I agree and drugs ruins your life and makes you turn into a person you arent. My favourite memory from my childhood has to me my first performance from school we did old macdonald had a farm and I was a piggy it was so cute we still have it on tape
Nick: That would be something I would love to see, that actually perfectly aligns with my next question 6. what made you want to be an actress?
Shantel: Well Next time we meet I Will show you. Hmm What made me want to be an actress Well besides being a princess ive also wanted to become an actress as little Girl and
Shantel: Lucky. For me that dream came true in 1999-2000
Nick: The dream of being an actress or being a princess and if it’s the second one then you’ve been holding back on me in this interview.
Shantel: Hahah being an actress I bet if I was a royal you would be hearing a lot more from me on social media and news
Nick: I think so too and I was going to say if I was royalty I would be giving up this acting job even though I see what Prince William and Kate Middleton go through and I don’t think I could handle that.
Nick: Question 7. What’s your favorite rainy day activity so to speak or something you like to do when you have free time?
Shantel: Hahah if we both were royals than this interview was gonna be really different. Okay this might sounds weird but I love to walk around in the rain with my umbrella or Not I love the smell and sound of it but I also love to have a pj day and watch movies all day. I also would love to have a rainy Kiss but Thats a dream that wont come out that quickly
Nick: I feel like that’s every girls dream damn ryan reynolds and the notebook isn’t that the movie that has the rain kiss him and rachel mcadams.
Shantel: Yes Thats Exactly the movie I was talking about Damn Ryan he makes every Girl Go weak for a Kiss in th rain. So if you ever meet someone and the love that movie you know What to do Haha
Shantel: Oh wait I made a mistake Its Gosling Not Reynolds Haha
Shantel: Well What can we say both are hot
Nick: Good advice for my next girlfriend whenever that will be. Let’s move onto question 8. This one is a little personal and you don’t have to say names but tell me about your worst date and it doesn’t even need to be a first date just in general worst date?
Shantel: My worst date was in highschool he was a handsome Guy but he only talk about himself and dates me so he could fool around with my best friend behind my back
Nick: Oh god that’s awful I was hoping for a more comical story then a sad one, well I’m sorry about that jerk.
Shantel: I havent dated many people but my last 3 out of 4 people were okay and took all 1 year bit so long
Nick: I’m glad you had better luck after that jerk. Do you want to keep going, question 9. What’s something you want to do in your career? Like maybe write a book, direct etc.?
Shantel: Yes keep going I like this interview. I would love to bring a single but I dont think Im a Good singer but otherwise I would love to write a childbook or Make my own movie
Nick: I could help you with that single I’ve done quite a bit of producing so I know my way around a studio I mean I should it’s been my second home since I was 13.
Shantel: If I ever have the confidence in singing I Will Make sure to let you hear my voice and you can Tell me What you think of it ?
Nick: And I will be completely honest.
Shantel: I appreciate that thank you
Nick: And now sadly we are the last question; if I knew how fun this would be I would have prepared more maybe next time. My last and final question just might be your toughest one yet, what’s your favorite jonas brothers song?
Shantel: Yeah we should totally hang out sometimes and have Loads of fun. Oh I almost thought you were gonna ask me my fave Jonas brother Haha but my favourite song has to be burnin up
Nick: That was my original question but I shouldn’t put you under that pressure and besides I’m everyone’s favorite. Well this was a great interview and thanks for taking the time out of your busy schedule to do this. We will definitely have to hang out soon.
Shantel: Actually my answer wasnt gonna be hard it has to be you since you Showed me a lot of fun today. Haha you totally are. Thank you so much for this amaZing interview
Shantel: Yes we totally should
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I love this girl. She make me laugh. She make me smile
And I know she's suffering and I know she's being honest.
But I feel and I understand her frustration and that is what makes me smile.
Y'all gotta watch she goes off on Corona and COVID -19 calling it a her and a she.
Saying she didn't do no wrong and she don't deserve house arrest.
I believe her and I love her for her pure honesty and raw anger and hate for the situation.
I felt that same so many times in my life for aliens and for situations beyond the means of the Earth.
People like her i been worried for. People trying their best But just one day its too much.
I worry because I'm like that myself.
While she seem like... A volcano... Realize she took herself outside. Yelled loud enough so the kids were warned to not approach her she needed her own anger time out.
And she yelled her heart and mind out. She yelled it so strong and powerful.
And for that i am proud of her.
I'm sure she went inside and gave them kids all the love they deserve and juice without making a pool.
You can send your kids in the backyard and play. I see there's a garage open... Let them draw with chalk and get out your pretty hair.
They're bored as you auntie. Idk if you're baby sitting or live in... But it seems like you got someone essential working, or someone other than you that isn't pulling "at home weight" as much as you.
Being in front of the open garage... Laughing a bit at yourself when you said you wanted to make lil girl a pool... Drinking.. Feeling trapped ... Just seems like Some one else is leaving every day and you can't. And if you ask me to look real good you was waiting the last few minutes outside for them to come driving up.
So you may wanna go pick up a Wal-Mart pick up order of grocery. It sometimes is a long line. I looked this morning and its all booked to Monday for my local one. But doing that will keep you in less contact with others thus ideally healthier. Then spin through the drive thru and take the long way home.
There's no law saying the stay at home personnel must stay home at all times. Just limited.
You wouldn't necessarily wanna go in the stores seeing as yoh are the number one to care for the children, auntie. As the germs are more likely to be there. But to do a pick up. Idk who else is doing pick up. We just have Wal-Mart here... But may be others,in your local area. Well pick up you Just verify its your order. Through your car window so it's very limited contact with one person and they load up your groceries and you sit and wait in the car.
At the same time there's no law you and the kids can't go in the store. Its just limited.
It's clear you're not going anywhere. You can go places. Just limited. I do believe you can get in the car and just go for a drive. Just get out in the car and drive wherever. Idk where you live and if they have a ban but here in New Mexico we can drive anywhere in the state. And hotels are still operating. So drive to the next city and get a hotel for a night.
Its okay in many areas to do so. Even in NYC you can book a room.
But if we have to social distance. And we are in our cars following traffic laws and just driving without getting out of our cars. Then we are obeying the rules.
Loop hole baby.
Many of us feel like our cars are as personal as our homes. So #stayhome would be same as #stayinthecar on a nice drive.
And she has a 3 year old. Its a perfect time to show her the neighborhood and let her get familiar with it and how to get to the store. Test the little one
So, then it falls under education.
Loop hole baby.
How a cop gonna be all "you can't"???
Now as long as you remember to say "we're doing this in case you get lost (or kidnapped) or get a ride from your friend's parent that i said you could and you can make sure you can tell them how to get home and/or make sure they're going the right ways to get home"
Then for sure a cop can't tell you you can't.
Just in case neighborhood watch don't recognize your car... And calls you in. And you have the little one repeat the lessons to you because you explain it So in case you do get stopped then they know what they are doing in the car with you. And the SMS if the cop check it will also notify "safe distance patrol" which means all you need is verification you live there. Car registration or ID is preferred. That is for a worried cop. What it does actually signal is "having fun let's join in, too" So, when or if you see the cop you can pull over and they can give you tips on being safe if the cop wants interaction currently they probably will not pull over because of social distancing. But all they're doing is saying "SMS notified action in the area. We want you to know if this happens you're safe"
Because home invasions will often use the victims car, if a a person inside is moving around or the cop senses something not,right they will pull over the car to double check. So an ID is the most preferred method and they will visually check all ID of all adult passengers if they choose but it is recommended.
So make sure you're following laws. Kids are buckled and you're going the posted speed limit.
If you're going to your house then back out and over and over.
This case im speaking would look suspicious. So you drive down to the 711 four times so they can memorize and no one gets out and yoh just keep driving that circle
Its how you need to teach the kids but it would look suspiciously to the SMS computer system and for our safety I don't want to override it.
I'd rather a nice cop check and speak to the kids and thank the adults for looking out for the children's safety and for helping them do their jobs.
Usually a cop isn't in protocol to pull over unless its a wreckless danger. So like if I'm a kidnapper I'm a trip out. And either gonna try to get away from the cop or drive super cautious.
So cops may do some Dick moves around you to check you.
So y'all teaching your kids how to get home safe realize the cop is trying to protect you and realize they are in practice mode they may not think so but you know they are. So they may pull you over and so you have already explained to the car what y'all doing. So everyone should be able to explain it back to anyone.
So otherwise just take a nice long drive to the next town and then turn around and just have a nice drive.
Take time to see sights you don't normally see. Or like say you been wanting to go to the zoo but you're unsure of the drive. Well there's no traffic so you can practice driving there so you learn that way to get there easy.
But #StayInTheCar.
I love this girl in the video so much i made a movement after her.
Remember #DriveSober
So staying in the car does mean drive through!
Get you and your babies a treat. So them Quarentine Loop Hole fries are all jacked up and down under the seat until for eternity.
So y'all Just let your family out. Don't keep your beauties locked in because it's safest. Get a little creative.
So babies with some chalk. Or in the backyard playing ...pick up some balls online... Like Oriental Trading company is cheap and i know that you can get a dozen of a variety of different balls. And jump ropes and all kinds of things delivered straight to your house. Chalk, too.
Now you could stay in your little square in the front yard but i would imagine the back yard is more contained. Something with a fence and that is just for safety and not so much about social distancing But just to "stay in the yard" and not deal with nothing bull shit someone bored can come up with.
So I know
.i been waiting... I been i know people are losing their shit.m. I need to see it so I know what to say or do.
So thank you, ma'am for being so public and raw and straight from the soul and heart.
Letting your frustration out so the dark grainy images of my imagination have a voice and a way to be visible to the needs of the world.
Because I'm not realizing what all is going on every where so i need my Soul Warriors letting it out to be known.
My life i go out and my daughter has been trapped in and she don't mind so much but last night finally i could take her to the gas station just for a minute late late night... We both had to wear masks... She was all "I don't want you getting sick" and so i told her "you need to wear one too"
Which i was glad we did because the car we borrowed is leaking antifreeze into the car and it stinks like Hell and a smoker it makes me cough like Hell so the mask actually helped a lot. So i didn't cough with it on. So after this is all over if i borrow his car youre gonna see me wearing a mask just so i came breathe unless i fix my car... And Idk...
So y'all if you're tripping or tense or even if you're not because you're just trying to chill and cope and Don't realize you're building up a bubble of lava
Switch it up a little bit!!! Y'all are all up in there together you know your schedules. Who does what and who dont do what.
Who don't ever leave.
At least open windows. Something. Switch it up.
Y'all essiential workers coming home to dinner made and a clean house... Y'all gonna come to a volcano one day and don't know why
Then you gonna make it worse all what the Hell? What i do?! You wanna go to work?! I'm doing all i can to keep this home together and you act like that?!
And mother fucker honey. You're gonna get stabbed in the throat.
The shit just builds. This is why I didn't like this plan.
It builds on both sides. Believe it or not the ones going out are worried about the ones at home getting sick. And actually about them being cooped in... Some are.
But i know without a doubt they're loving home cooked meals and the family all home and safe and the house all clean
Hello were in the 1950s
So yo let the adults trapped at home drive the car if they are licensed. Let them capture that freedom..sit in the passenger seat and be the host. Sit side way and make sure the back seat is being good. Talk to them. Give them love and attention
Let that adult box herself in to a space filled with love for the family and her have that freedom at the wheel
Because that is what it is. She/he running that home. You need to give her a break stop them kids from going on about auntie and momma and so on and give them the strong love and attention they deserve. "How was your day?" "You looking how to get to the store?" "What is that street name?"
Just let her be quiet and enjoy the ride.
As women that's all we want.
Control. Lol. And love. Attention. Help. Strength. Patience.
And I know men want the same exact thing.
But we need to switch it up. Add some spice to the bland. Or its gonna taste like lava and not lots of lova.
Y'all know i am the Queen of Lava.
And y'all going out. Make sure you're on time!
But take them stuck in the house out.
I prescribe no less than a 30 minute outing. I saw gas here was $1.58 on the interstate for regular. I know places like California and New York are lots more and i know some places are even cheaper. But point. DNA4U says y'all should be able to afford it. Every where it must be less than $3 per gallon for even premium. Right?
So #StayInTheCar and check out some low cost online shopping. They are essiential employees.
And love yourselves even if you turn into a tornado spewing lava hurricane
And if someone around does. Love them
Help them. Add something they need to your routine.
Its not too late to save a life.
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