#i'm the lone firebender in a family of airbenders ahahahaha

[jukeboxhound]

When you're an actual professional in domestic violence crisis intervention and there's A Situation in the family but no one is listening because you're still the youngest and you've spent years in the role of the family's angry crazy black sheep anyway who "always makes a big deal out of nothing."

#the irony of having been repeatedly shamed for not sharing the same familial understanding as others #but those same people not seeing an issue of continuing to text the stalker because 'they've been so kind to me and they'll go away eventua #*eventually' like GURL THAT IS NOT HOW THIS WORKS AND ALSO WHERE'S YOUR FUCKING LOYALTY #a bitch is coming for me and mine i'm not sitting around quibbling over whether or not i'm gonna hurt her delicate feelings #oh that's right it's because any assertion of the most reasonable boundaries is considered a personal attack and escalation #/screams into the void #I LOVE YOU BUT I DON'T UNDERSTAND YOU. MAKE IT MAKE SENSE. #hound barks #yelling on tumblr because my only other option is fb and that's where family is #have i mentioned that IT IS LITERALLY?? MY JOB??? TO HELP FOLKS DEAL WITH THIS KIND OF THING???? FOR THE LAST 6 YEARS?????? #this is why professionals in ANY field should never be involved with family there is NO objectivity and too much history but also C'MON #/screams into the void some more #me texting family: that's an interesting idea i'm curious to hear more about your thoughts on what kind of impact you think blah blah #me irl: WHERE IS YOUR ANGER AND PROTECTIVENESS WHERE IS YOUR SWORD WHY DO YOU ALL ALWAYS SETTLE FOR THE BARE MINIMUM #AND SOMETIMES NOT EVEN THAT #well okay that takes us into the realm of what people believe they're worth but WHY HAVE NONE OF YOU EVER GOTTEN THERAPY #me in the notes of this post like OH YEAH AND ANOTHER THING -- ! #🙃😅😤 #i'm the lone firebender in a family of airbenders ahahahaha #i've been on a zuko-centric fic kick lately