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#i’ve tried being polite and bringing up the problem without explicitly pointing fingers by leaving cleaning products (which i bought)
camgoloud
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4 months
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i simply feel that if you burn shit in your roommate’s skillet you should then feel the obligation to be the one who scrapes it out and cleans up
#sometimes i think about the fact that i’m literally the only person who’s cleaned the kitchen in this place for the entire year and a half
#i’ve lived here and i get. a little pissed off
#i’ve tried being polite and bringing up the problem without explicitly pointing fingers by leaving cleaning products (which i bought)
#out on the counters and sending a text in the group chat like ‘hey! 😊 i got these wipes for us! i think that all of us could
#use these a little more often so that the kitchen doesn’t get so gross!’ but it seems that everyone either has no sense of shame or just
#genuinely doesn’t mind living in filth for the periods between the marathon cleaning sessions i do every few weekends when i have the time
#one of the guys who lives downstairs will just walk right by me cleaning up on his way to the fridge and pretend he can’t see me
#which is still better than the other one (the one who just burned shit in my skillet) who once saw me cleaning and asked if he could help
#and when i got all pleased and asked if he could maybe take the trash out for me while i was cleaning counters (a small and simple task!
#when he’d literally asked me if there was anything he could do!) he visibly deflated. said ‘well i’m not really around here much [so it’s
#not my trash in there etc.]’ and wandered off. without doing anything
#like. HELLO???? you could have just been like the other guy and pretended you didn’t see me doing all the work if this was how you were
#going to be about it
#but i guess he wanted to feel good about himself having offered/expected me to just say ‘oh no thanks i love being your housekeeper 😊’
#tbh i really need to be more assertive and be like ‘hey guys i’m sick of this’ and maybe. bring up the Sexism of it all. because.
#you know. the whole situation feels pretty gendered
#was complaining about all this to an irl friend the other day and she said i should start a chore chart but i don’t want to be responsible
#for maintaining the chore chart either! take on the mental load of managing the housework and also turning into Resident Bitch for asking
#men to do things for me. you know. there is simply no way out here
#there is another woman who lives here as well but unfortunately i don’t think she’ll be much help in forcing the issue because. she doesn’t
#clean shit either!
#actually in the days since she moved in the shower drain in our bathroom has become horrendously clogged which. well. i mean not to point
#fingers but one of us has got about two inches of hair and the other has got a foot and a half. so
#i also simply feel that if you clog a drain you should be the one to unclog it but i’ll probably do that as well
#sorry for the massive tag rant by the way i really shouldn’t make myself out to be some kind of martyr because i’m not particularly neat
#myself but…. ooooh god if the bar isn’t all the way down in hell
#anyway i just did a whole bunch of dishes but i left that one skillet to soak passive-aggressively overnight
#i don’t think the aggression will come across though because i think he genuinely won’t even pay attention to the fact that it’s still
#dirty and i’ll end up being the one to clean it tomorrow
#caseyposting
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