#i’m gonna get flack for this because this site is a cesspit full of faggot hating aces

[holymistake]

as a person who has gay sex it would really do something for me if publicly decrying the idea of the thing with passionate and sometimes violent homophobia wasn’t apparently the overwhelming culture for aroaces

#you guys want to cuddle up and be friends with us and take our progress away from us at the same time #why are you so dense #if you don’t do this you’re my friend and i’ll protect you #if you do this you’re a classless virgin #i’m gonna get flack for this because this site is a cesspit full of faggot hating aces #i don’t know how to tell you that if you can’t deal with gay sex as a bare concept then you’re homophobic #and it goes a thousand times more if you call gay people (who VERY OFTEN have real life gay sex) disgusting for the sex they have #and discuss. yknow it is A Crucial part of queer liberation. to be able to be ourselves without this sort of nonsense. #i don’t know why you think you can do this #your ‘PURITY’ is not a moral high ground and you aren’t better than me #i put my mouth on genitals and i’m still a normal person. begging aces and aroaces to accept that at LEAST. holy shit. #can the cool aces in the back please call this out so us gays and bis don’t have to keep doing it #its coming from inside your house. #fucking Stop Hating Gay People Challenge somehow controversial in ‘queer’ spaces i know it’s so hard for you #some of you. #all i’m saying is that if being able to say you hate it is integral to whatever you want out of being in community? #then it needs to be separate from mine. #but if you can accept my existence as it is then come over fellas. it’s that simple. #shipping cartoons don’t replace the requirements of allyship. gay people are real. they do real things #i cant stop talking abt this i just really saw some shit that made my brain hurt some yall hurt me mentally i’m taking damage