#i wasnt expecting a freeze till march

[husband]

URGENT!!

We're expecting another freeze in texas so very low temps and no power like last year.

We need money for firewood, gas, candles, batteries, pet food, and water before Thursday when it's supposed to start up.

Most of the money will be going Into food and terracotta heater set ups for my animals who I have already set up all in one room.

Paypal.me/howlp

Anything helps and best wishes to my fellow texas residents during this time.

#prattle #i lost a couple reptiles and entire fish tanks to last years freeze so you can imagine the stress im under rn #i also have to buy at least one or two avian safe candles for my birds terra cotta heater #and those are like $30 each #im low on dog and cat food i just need enough for some small bags #i hate living in texas so much #i know this is short notice but im pretty sure im finding out about this around the same time as every other resident lol #i wasnt expecting a freeze till march

[jandbaby]

8 Frosties!

So I haven’t updated in a while, I had my retrieval done on March 23rd.

I had:

20 Retrieved

14 Mature

11 Fertilized

8 Day 5/6 Blasts Frozen

Now just need this Covid19 to F off so I can get my transfer done!  I was suppose to have the fresh transfer but with all this going on it got moved to a freeze all cycle.  Shitty but I understand, the transfer will be discounted since its not what I had agreed to at the beginning, but I am so glad I had the retrieval done at least, I had 5 grand in injections and if it would have been postponed I would have lost all that money. 

An acquaintance of mine did IVF with a surrogate and she just announced that they are expecting twins and will reveal the surro when they find out the genders, but it made me so happy for her and even more excited for my transfer to happen!  They did 2 separate frozen transfers with 1 embryo each and they didn’t take, then they did their last transfer with their last 2 embryos and both took!  

On another note I left the one salon I was in, I had to leave because I would still have to pay $600 a month without making anything since I do personal services and we wont be able to work till June at the earliest.  Even with the CERB fund it wasnt enough to do, the owner verbally attacked me saying I was bailing on my rent and screwing her over and she bends over backwards for all of us and she would NEVER do that to someone, also went into the group chat with the other girls and said someone else was leaving and screwing her for rent and another room to fill and went on a huge rant.  It really triggered me the way she just attacked for no reason, I explained I financially could not afford to stay during this time and it was nothing personal but I couldn’t go into debt for the salon. 

We have NO contract so technically I didn’t have to give notice or pay last months rent (April) but I still am going to, just so she doesn’t have any right to bad mouth me about it.  I’m not the only one she has snapped on either one of the other girls asked if since we werent using the utilities if we could get a bit of a break on the rent instead of the whole amount and she snapped hard, another girl told us all she was on the phone with the emergency business line and they gave her some information and the owner blew up on her.  Like were all stressed but none of us are attacking except her.  She keeps saying she wants a positive environment for us to work in and we cant even say or ask anything without being scared of being attacked.  She kept saying why would I think rent would just disappear (never did) and nothings for free (wasnt expecting to pay nothing) and she isn’t a charity (never said she was).  She said how she is the one keeping the salon and the girls afloat...umm we can’t afford $600 a month without our regular income coming in, and what we dont pay gets tacked onto the next month so we could go back with like $1800 hanging over our heads.  I said I have no savings since it all went into IVF, i can’t deffer some of my things and I just cant justify the salon rent during this time so I have to leave.  She said “rent should be a priority, it’s your job”  um ya a job i cannot work because of a virus, its a pandemic none of us knew this would happen, everything is out of the norm.  I have a few different priorities right now so I had to drop that one.  Im just hurt and pissed she treated me like that, and brought it into the group chat for the other girls to be able to judge me, in person she pretends to be this great and supportive friend but then when i have to do something for myself she acts like that through text.