Tumgik
#i unfollow blogs that don't follow back in a few days btw!
doglyfag · 10 months
Text
Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media
gabriel ✮ 23 ✮ he/him ✮ dog guy ✮ engaged here is my carrd!! it has my f/o list on it! ⋆⭒˚。⋆ im kinda shy still here! ✮ like if read to mutual!
22 notes · View notes
astrophileous · 7 months
Text
Btw, I just wanted to drop by real quick in case any of you missed the update I did to my bio, and to make clear on where I stand regarding the on-going crisis happening in the world right now:
I support the freedom of Palestine, and I do not support the Zionist regime.
The situation in Gaza has now escalated beyond an average person's worst nightmare, and thus, I find it necessary to use whatever platform I have to claim my stance and voice my support whenever I can. I know most of you (all of you, really) didn't follow me for politics, but that's the thing: this isn't about politics anymore, this is about humanity.
As someone who grew up in a country who went through colonization, I've been taught since childhood about the horrors of living under an oppressive regime, where every single second of your life is haunted by the possibility of expulsion or death. My heart has been breaking these past few weeks, seeing how the world responds to a literal genocide happening right in front of their eyes. An entire nation stands on the brink of extinction, and a large number of the world population has chosen to turn their backs on them and entirely dismiss their sufferings.
I know you followed this blog for my fics, and I also never intended to use this blog for anything else other than to share my writings, but I'll be damned if I don't use every last bit of privilege I have to do my part in this fight against injustice. The core purpose of this blog won't change; I would still mainly use it to post my fanfictions. But starting from now, I would also use this blog to share updates about the Israel-Palestine situation as well.
Maybe some of you will find that annoying, and maybe you'll end up unfollowing me. Maybe, some of you even disagree. Maybe you're the kind of person who's okay with the complete erasure of an entire ethnic group. If that's the case, then you should definitely unfollow me. It's fine. I don't care. I don't need anyone who supports genocide lurking around my page anyway.
With that said, I also wanna stress that my stance doesn't mean I excuse discrimination against any group of people. I condemn anti-semitism, and anyone who tries to take advantage of my support for Palestine to promote their discrimination against Jewish people will be blocked.
Thank you so much for reading. I hope that all of us can bear witness to the day humanity wins.
From the river to the sea 🇵🇸
21 notes · View notes
Text
Tumblr media
anonymous asked:
how long should someone who followed you wait for a follow back? like if it's been a week, should we assume you're not interested and unfollow? o: love your writing btw!
Tumblr media Tumblr media
I plead guilty, I suck. Thanks for the question anon! I'm gonna ba completely honest here: when somebody follows me, I give a very quick check on their blog ( like, very quick ). If I see something to really catch my attention, I'll follow within a day or two. If not, I'll check said blog later, in the span of a few days. Definitely doesn't mean I'm less interested, cause like I said, I do a sloppy job at first, and generally my initial interest doesn't reflect how we later interact.
But these days / weeks / months, my attention has really been all over the place, and I don't think I've checked many people's blogs. Like, it's on my to-do list, but I haven't done it yet, and that's also the reason why I screenshot my followers, so when that time comes, in case they've unfollowed, I can follow them back ( and have my ass kicked ).
Meaning, normally I'm quick to follow back, but lately I'm a slow ass. Plus, normally ( not for the last few weeks ), I soft-block people I don't see myself writing with. Now, you can nudge me if you want ( sowwy ), if not, it's perfectly understandable if you don't want to continue following.
0 notes
lucidpantone · 4 years
Note
I'm sorry but I don't feel bad at all. I unfollowed that blog a long time ago when they started to talk shit in their posts. One thing is you sharing your opinion on something and you have the right to do it, you don't have the obligation to like what other people like. Other thing is coming for someone for having a different opinion on things. This croissenne blog some time ago answered a ask stating that people in this fandom that liked jealousy plots were toxic and the involvement of Jens in Sobbe's business were weird. Calling someone toxic or weird because they like smut that involves more than two people or because they like to read "cheap ass plots" (like they called it) is wrong in many ways. There are writers/readers following that blog that probably felt bad about the things they enjoy. Sure this person is a good writer, don't take this from them, they're indeed good but don't put them as the victim here for deleting the blog because no one made them do it.
Look anon we don’t mince words on this blog so lets actually get all our damn facts strait and come with the receipts if your gonna take that tone with me. This situation began unfolding a few days back concerning croissenne and +18 blog who btw writes fantastic content and truly provides a space for those who want to discuss topics concerning queer sex honestly. They are very few blogs like this in the fandom because the Skam fandom is sorta splits into two categories those who graduated into the remakes and are now over the age of 23+ and those between the ages of 15-23. Thus this weird divide concerning differing perspectives on sex and also personal preferences towards mature content. I understand the frustration concerning the constant spin cycle of criticism when you enjoy reading specific sexual kinks or even something like a threesome. I won't deny there is side-eye and judgement from some mutuals but for me personally I am super comfortable with my sexuality so haters gonna hate so my toxic queer ass is gonna be extra petty and open this big ass newspaper with the headline sander jealousy plot and read that shit at high volume but anyways i get that others aren't as petty as me and being called weird and toxic can create a stigma towards this type of content and hence 18+ blogger becoming a dying breed and beginning to funnel out. I am just saying the solution isn’t going on anon and getting combative and seeking to enlighten or change someone else’s perspective on sex.Like the irony of fans of queer blogs sending anons to those blogs trying to shift their sexual perspective. Like some of you all need to go back to the library because reading is fundamental. 
Like if someone wants to give a stank eye to a jens threesome who tf cares.... let them. Honestly I will be right there behind them and not because of the threesome but because what is it with this fandom and Jens? Y’all jens is the most vanilla white boy ever. He is the definition of basic and its not even cuz am hating on white guys but like give me Gio(IT), Arthur(FR), Luchi(IT), David(Druck) or even Aaron(at least Aaron is funny asf and way more interesting than Jens). Also if Sobbe was gonna have a threesome they could do better than Jens.... like dont disrespect sobbe like that. Also folks lets learn to de-couple trope bias from published fics and using that fic as some sort of graph as to why this trope bothers you. Like its not that hard I remember croissenne once stating she didn't read angst or enjoyed it and she wouldn't be engaging with high angst content well guess what I love to write.......angst, but i wasnt upset by her commentary I just noted ok she wont enjoy my content however doesn't stop me from creating it for those who do enjoy it. Thats the people that matter not the latter. Moral of the story no content creator should ever feel so overwhelmed by the fandom’s actions enough to deactivate.Especially the wtfock fandom its super small and literally once a week we get the haters in the tag insulting and generalizing the fandom for sport. So I am sticking by what I said its said to see any content creator leave the space is a lost to the fandom because they too serve a purpose as does an 18+ blog. If you cant recognize why those two things are mutually exclusive and on par well then i dont know what to tell you. 
5 notes · View notes
topconfessions · 3 years
Note
ok, so, you might take this as passive agressive I’m-concerned-honey-but-actually-I-want-to-choke-you-with-my-bare-hands, but I hope you are legitimately in touch enough with reality that you understand when I say: referring to the women around Seungri as “those hoes” is just... not. it. I’ve followed your blog for a long time, I love your general candour, but honestly that wording is just distasteful. I’m grown now, but back when I was around 20/19 I knew lots of women who got semi-accidentally involved in Burning Sun type shit just on account of them being young/ inexperienced/ broke + attractive etc. A lot of the stories I heard were from women otherwise very respectable, who got very wasted just 1 night, they got secret-cammed, and then that almost ruined their entire life. When those women grow older they often end up with almost PSTD-like symptoms. Like... Idk, I like your blog, but I don’t know how to be okay with you if you’re propagating that sort of internalised-misogynistic-oppaapologist bullshit.
I don't believe in creating nor entertaining strife with submitters / people who ask. If you wanted my raw uncensored brutal opinion on this entire spill you're giving me: Seungri is at the very bottom if not practically nonexistent on the list (which is barely a thing) of who I give a damn about or care enough to solid opinion on the general basis of his morality and character of a person.
That is your own problem.
Allow me to take it further and state the clear bitter truth that we live in a society now where we don't practice individualism. Like Korea, majority of everyone is: homogenous, lacking critical thinking skills and ties their general problem solving ability with media culture and trends. You coming to me with this complaint with clear vitriolic tones and personal offensive undertones is just to me a sign of what I just stated. Over politically correct rhetoric and taking everything personally.
Respect me the same way I would respect you. Do not project nor state what my personal views are. Period. Its a rough world out here and no matter the word choice, there is always going to be someone like you or even contrary to you with a huge hang up over something that nobody would have given a fuck about if the same word or sentence was stated about 6-12 years ago. Facts.
I'm not going to participate in this whole women's suffrage argument you are bringing forth. I'm not dismissing it and 1,000 appreciate & thank you for your concern.
But this is an entire issue you've spun up and took too personally and created a social gender issue out of. You can unfollow. I will not argue nor disrespect you as if your follow will make or break the progress here.
Btw someone go check Chou Seunghyun for literally alluding to Han Seo Hee as being a gold digging hoe for the explanation of why she kept gunning for him in the legal back and forth. Someone go check Lee Seung-Ri for the fact he was under legal terms in a court of law by textbook definition: pimping these women. Every female has a story. Every female is an individual and not one female can be written off or clumped into a category with others, but from a customer or first party view they are going to be viewed as such. This does not stem from any personal POV of mine.
I don't know where you found the time to pull an extremely specific case of me purportedly stating that any female who was a victim in the burning sun scandal was a hoe. If you want to be a reflection of how people process things these days, i.e pay attention to what the "tone" or responses to ask are then take a few damaging words and suddenly come to the conclusion there is a hate brigade going on, that's showing me that unfortunately anon you may have viewed what you are speaking about to me from a bigger picture view.
Seungri in general in his private life surrounds himself with unsavory individuals and I'd be astonished if everyone were to suddenly become two faced and state he couldn't possibly ever be sexually promiscuous with both upstanding women, inexperienced women, opportunistic women and harlot women who are viewed as hoes by the majority.
Let's cordially and respectfully cut that rhetoric out that these women and girls are innocent. Naive, and dumb lacking "life experience" and being preyed on by famous older men who are messy as you've insinuated in your other VERY ranting and aggressive ask. Do your research and go back to when Han Seo Hee clearly antagonize the fans stating in a very PG way that she was keeping them pressed cause she got to sleep with their oppas and be in their world. Go back to when she was at the resorts showing off her body in a bikini (which she has a right to do*) knowing how that would look in comparison within the scandal drama. go back to when Seo Hee had foul words for TOP that were unwarranted & uncalled for saying he had a little dick, getting One of the iKON members in trouble and saying very phobic things to the LGBTQ community and being shady in general.
GO BACK TO WHEN THE FEMALE SEUNGRI SLEPT WITH IN PRIVATE CONFIDENCE (Clearly either an escort or one night stand) EXPOSED SEUNGRI BY SELLING PHOTOS TO THE MEDIA & THE STORY WITHOUT HIS PREMISSION!!! Even without his knowledge making him infamous for towering a girl after sex, which is the most degrading thing a man can do to you cause that shows he views you as a whore and not worth the respect of being considerate enough to help you clean yourself up...hell even find a more efficient way to climax. If a man towels you he does not like you or consider you girlfriend material. If a guy sexually understands you and provides a towel during period sex or cause you two mutually agreed a towel is best instead of swallowing or whatever then great.
But he threw that towel at her supposedly.
How many times has top basically told us within his lyrics and passively through shows he just runs through women? Not all of this women have to be or ARE SAINTS.
Period. That's all! All of what you just stated goes hand in hand.
P.S don't bring an aura of frustration or negativity with the oppaologist phrase. None of us here are and on top of that it's very derogatory. It's on par with calling all of us and me a sasaengs. Y'all really love to come to me with this heated rhetoric like I don't have a life just cause I have rare strong opinions. Nobody has to agree with me but everyone should respect just as much as I would show you respect.
P.S this was semi pointless in the sense that I bet you in every other forum or blog on the internet, people have called bigbang malicious names or referred to their girls as worse. I am only one person so checking me with that unwarranted attitude isn't going to magically stop people from calling Seungri trash or calling any female he fucks a hoe.
0 notes