#i kneejerk to. frustrated and irritated and displeased a lot

[hannahchronism]

my entire internet experience really can kind of boil down to "is this person being unnecessarily confrontational about shit you could just not engage with or am i aggressively nonconfrontational and will avoid things that should be addressed?" and then spending the next week thinking about it with increasing levels of still being unsure

#i kneejerk to. frustrated and irritated and displeased a lot #to a degree to which i think is. a can of worms people seem to think i'm lying about but-- that is another conversation #the point being. i've had to sort of build this tool in which i Don't say the first reaction i have because #i do not think it's fair (or even a real reaction? if that makes sense?) until i've sat back and like #made sure it sat in something reasonable and furthermore *proportional* #and then i go on the internet and someone will go like ''we need to lecture this person because they have a habit of conversation that #i personally find mildly annoying so they need to change it and grow and be self aware'' and i'm like #do they though? #;sdklfj;lskjdfg;lsdkfjg #like i don't.... want to just Push this person for doing a thing i find a little bit annoying because like #i don't even know the person? and that's the point of the conversation is lots of us don't know them well #and they're a little overfamiliar. which is kind of annoying. #but like. it's not a crime?? it's not.... Wrong™? it's just? not for me?? #i dunno i dunno i'm leaving it alone for now i'm not gonna argue with someone #about a third person neither of us is actually friends with sd;lfkjg;dlfkjg