#i have no momey for groceries

[methcheese]

i am so tired of being poor oh my god

#i have no momey for groceries #no food i can being to work because my job is on the road #no food period #not even sure my next check will be enough to pay my bills #and had to go to the stupid urgent care for my ankle and theyre gonna charge me $800 for an ace bandage #this is making me miserable!!! #make things cost less!! #plus im almost out of t and THAT costs money #never gna be able to afford too surgery cause i literally cant save money!! #why do i even bother

[step-mom-surviving]

Clothes

Ohhhhh god!

This lady is driving me nuts, her bf is probably not giving it to her right lol!

Over the years BM issues with clothes is always sooooo ridiculous. She needs the clothes she bought him back right away. And shes not the person to offer to come get them if she really needs them.

She demands we take it to her.

So school started a week ago and we picked SS up Wednesday and Friday. Both days with new clothes from his mom. She demands we take it to her on Monday. I do so, im even nice enough to put it in a backpack of his so its not ina grocery bag. Yet she doesnt have any of our clothes to trade... how considerate of her 😒

Shes been bickering with me about Kung Fu for a week now.

So yesterday i get a text saying shes missing PUMA socks and Ralph Lauren underwear and she would apprecite i send everything when asked and her clothes are labeled MOM. And we are sending clothes that are labels his dads initals and what is all that about.

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Note to anyone, why would you buy expensive clothes for a child who is 6 and obviously is still growing and is about to hit a grow spurt shortly? Yet no momey for kung fu!

She just wants to push my buttons.

I tell her ill look for it and to label all her clothes since i will be only sending things labeled mom from now on.

Later in the day i get another text. If i was able to look for the clothes, I only respond with yes and forward a text from the kung fu school.

She says okay and says has all our clothes and will exchange at Kung fu. I ask her for 3 seating tickets i provided to her since shes not paying we are obligated thos tickets.

She says she already sold them to her family and is paying them for his belt test.

At this time of day, DH and i have been on a relaxing afternoon at home on our porch and im half a bottle of wine in.

I really want to petty and just ughh make her suffer and suggest we shouldnt even attend the class. It is court ordered day for my husband and we pay for the class. But im the bigger person and i know it will effect our son instead. So i tell her to please be sure to bring everything and be sure to have the money since we pay for the class and were nice enough to provide more than one ticket when she doesnt even pay

And i guess i hot a nerve since i havent herad of her yet. We also wont be participating in the training to be nice and show her were the bigger people in this whole ordeal.

[floridalivin-0103]

Everyone wans to bitch about how shit doesnt get done and how im not at school. You wanna bitch? Lets botch. Lets bitch about how you wanted nee furniture for my room (that I didnt even ask for) and now that we have it and you couldnt pay the bill I had to skip out on an oil change to pay it for you and im pretty sure you have no intention to pay it back. I gave you momey for groceries that once again would have paid for an oil change, didnt paynit back. But when I asked to borrow $40 to go out i hae to paybyou back and im terrible? Lets bitch about how when im not doing something right your husband jumps down my throat about it. HE DOESNT EVEN HAVE A JOB. Youre having to borrow money from us because your momey isnt managed better. Yes. Im fcking bitter. Im so tired of hesaring my name. I just wanna do my own thing and all of you leave me the fuck alone.