#i hate cishets so much

[coolcarabiner]

lesbians who are terfs will never make any sense to me crying about the supposed exclusivity of the “female experience” like my brother in christ she experienced an othered, lonely, confusing childhood where she was made to feel inadequate in her gender, sexuality, or both just the same as you and instead of letting this unify you against patriarchy you just enforce it on other people to maintain the sliver of “power” you think you have. how do u not see how dumb this is oh my god

#like trans women are hurt by the patriarchy they don’t benefit from it you fucking coconuts bc even if they were ‘men’ (they’re not) #they’d be men who cannot live up to the standards set by patriarchy!!!! this is feminism 101 yet some people run their mouths like it’s 1912 #like dude. she’s doing gender and sexuality in a way cishet society hates just like u are. please be fucking smart and realize attacking her #only hurts YOU and loses YOU the same bodily autonomy u wanna deny her for the sake of “’saving ur lesbian brethren’ or what the fuck ever #you’re hurting cis women trans women intersex people EVERYONE because you’re so obsessed w feeling special for being perceived as a woman #and then being harmed for it that you can’t even see that the women you hate so much experience the EXACT SAME SHIT. use ur brain!!!!!! #anyways sorry read some takes from some lesbians in LC and got way too heated. god bless u trans dykes i love u trans dykes #idk what to tag this so. ya #posts

[punkeropercyjackson]

Todomomo isn't 'a power couple' THEY'RE 16 THEY'RE 16 AND NOT EVEN POPULAR AT SCHOOL Please just let them be cheesy high school sweethearts who're t4t and autistic4autistic and get to act like what they're actually like around eachother instead of putting fronts because of their parents and be silly kitties and train together and not have to work to live up to exceptions because they think of eachother as amazing no matter what and stumble through romance tactics like precious dorks and bond over trauma and be he/they goth punk x she/they pastel punk AND STOP FUCKING MAKING THEM BE FRIENDS WITH BAKUGOU,MOMO LITERALLY CANONICALLY HATES HIM AND SHE'S NOT A MOM AND SHOUTO'S NOT EMOTIONLESS THEY'RE 16 THEY'RE 16

#god.....they deserve so much fucking better i hate cishets and orientalists #todomomo #t4t todomomo #todomomo protection squad #todoroki shouto #momo yaoyorozu #half bangladeshi rei agenda #blasian latina momo #trans todoroki #trans momo yaoyorozu #autistic todoroki #autistic momo yaoyorozu #adhd momo #momo yaoyorozu has anxiety #momo yaoyorozu has ocd #partially blind todoroki #chubby momo yaoyorozu #goth punk todoroki shouto #pastel punk momo yaoyorozu #anti bakugou #bnha geekery #our hero academia #two heroes #world heroes mission #smash tap #ultra impact #my villainess academia #tea blend crew #💌 #summerposting

[wizardnuke]

"are you a top or bottom" well first im gonna ask what definition that you're using for that cause there's the actual meaning of positioning and then there's the really intrusive implication that there's an inherent power dynamic in all gay sex related to who is giving and who is receiving. and then i'm not gonna answer either way cause thats not anyones business. what the fuck man

#this is apropos of literally nothing. sometimes i think about that whole thing and get so mad. #we both wear pants also . also skirts. what are you fucking talking about #AND yeah he's femme and i lean towards butch but if you make a comment about that im gonna rip your face off like an ape. #stop putting power dynamics in queer relationships its so weird i hate it so much oh my god. #this is not just pointed towards cishets. queer people are also so so so so so fucking strange . about queer dynamics. and lesbians if im #being so for real. people are so intrusive

[pa-pa-plasma]

look i'm gonna say it. some relationships are not queer, & that's okay. you don't have to cling to the idea that it's only okay if you can somehow make it queer. it's okay to be in a cishet relationship. the type of relationship doesn't make you less queer & it doesn't make cishet people inherently like. evil or something. chill out

#i keep seeing posts implying that only queer relationships are okay & seeing people being so afraid to be considered cishet #like. some queer people will get confused for being cishet. that's fine. you don't have to get angry at that. simple mistake #like i understand what you guys are saying but it just looks to me like you guys are shitting on straight people #there are trans het & cis gay people in the community. saying being cis or het is bad & should be avoided & argued against is just weird #like i 100% get you guys are trying to do some positivity thing but. does it have to be stupid #i get that some relationships that appear cishet are actually queer but if both people are cis & of opposite sexes & genders then like #i don't see how it's a queer relationship #you can BE queer & out & proud but a het relationship is a het relationship #if i started dating a guy i wouldn't say it wasn't #idk maybe i'm tired & confused but like. het relationships are not evil & it just makes it confusing to describe if you claim it's gay #like it's fine to joke i get that but when people start saying shit about how much they hate cis or het or cishet people fr like. shut up

[v01dbug-s1nr0se]

as a high schooler, i hate high schoolers

#oh my god theyre so stressful #i cant believe im running a school server like a community server #this is hell #its fucking cishet guys that are breaking the server rules #and theyre not even that hard to follow #i hate them so much #like #its not that hard #just shut up and read the rules #and fucking #just #behave yourself #youre almost an adult and youre acting like a toddler #ffs #void post #rant tags

[hissterical-nyaan]

That harrowing feeling when you know the world is not made for people like you and you're too tired to fight anymore

#sometimes their hate wins too ig #i hate cishet people so much some days #why do we have to suffer so much why do we always have to see their comfort

[eyes-eyes-eyes-eyes-eyes-eyes]

CAREY AND KILLIAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT

#i forgot how fucking WWWWONDWRFUL THEY ARE #god. griffin mcelroy i still owe you so much... #i hate to say it but. kind of ahead of his time..! #i mean i guess not rly #but like. im glad that he used the platform he had to do something that wasnt getting a lot of attention even if it was already being done #and now look at all the gay dnd podcasts.... unfortunately we kinda have to thank the cishet white guy in some ways

[ratcowboy69]

we need more movies that are shitty in a fun iconic way and less movies that are shitty in a “these people had a lot of money to make awesome special effects but somehow failed to make an actual plot” way

#also queer and poc characters being written by cishet white people #and shockingly #they end up being stereotyped token characters #please cut that shit out #can we make goncharov real #ifb we work togethger we can do it #goncharov #i hate cgi so much i hate it i hate it i hate it #i love dumb little puppets that don’t look remotely realistic #bring back practical effects PLEASE i am begging #also digital effects are only good when they’re bad #every early 00s movie has the worst effects and it so so so beautiful #movies

[nick-close]

If the things u complain about in the dndads fandom come from the Reddit you aren’t complaining about the fandom ur complaining about Reddit and it’s your burden for using that god forsaken place tbh

#I made this post forever ago in drafts #about the scary misoginy shit #but post reminded me about it so I rephrased it lol #my bf has told me 2 anecdotes about how ppl were transphobic to Ron hcs #and racist towards Terry sr #on the Reddit #both purely about dick size #the issue is reDDIT #I’m shocked every day people go on there #i mean we have had our discourse on tumblr #but OURS were ‘ong this series is ACTUALLY problematic andrhe cast r SO PROBLEMATIC CANCEL IT’ or the occasional whitewashing #which has gotten so much better from what I’ve seen #the hate blogs were whining about nonexistent ‘problematic’ things #the Reddit is just unapologetically offensive for no reason #that’s where cishets go #dndads #dungeons and daddies

[xlillilith]

I try not to be to focus on ships much cuz they really not and shouldn't be important at all but I really haaaaaate lord and miller for teasing the possibility of margo and miles when I know they're gonna most likely just gonna turn around and force him and gw*n together despite everything that's...not good about that ship, thus making margo into the disposable black love interests which many black female characters sadly fall victim too 😔

#I have to keep in mind these are cishet WHITE men first and foremost so i shouldn't get my hopes up #But...it just hurts to imagine how margo will be treated by them and I'm scared for it #Because the fandom already treats her like shit and overlook and ignore or hate her #And I don't trust them to give her a proper arc or exploration either I just can't trust them at all #Like my biggest fear is she'll be used as a tool or an obstacle to push fuckass gwiles together and just...ughhhh makes me #Mad just thinking about it cuz 1 I know they not gonna shelf the yt girl in favor of the black one because again #these are WHITE MALES #2 they wouldn't force gwiles down out throats so much if nothing was gonna come of it (ew) no matter what that may be sooooo #Just makes me sad but...who knows maybe I'm wrong and they'll end up surprising me but the bar and my faith in them is extremely low #Atsv critical #Ship critical #Ship hate

[janokenmun]

i think im starting to internalize some of that terf/radfem rhetoric of "men are always evil" and i think its affecting how i want to be seen

i wanna be someone whos kind and smart and cute first and it feels like at least "kind" and especially "cute" dont fit with the label of "man" so it makes it hard to identify as that, it feels like a fight to accept it even if it feels good when people call me a boy and stuff

for the cute one at least its partially alleviated when i see stuff like art of cute skirt-wearers who are stated to be boy, but theres not a lot for the like "kind" one. i wanna be nice and a good boy

#pilinikepijanoken #<- venty tag (block if u dont wana see this ill add that to my pinned uhh someday) #honeslty i feel like it's been affected a lot by that idea of like saving “men/cishet dni” things i had- and well the dnis themselves #(saving them was a very bad idea i tihnk that ended up making them have much higher impact than they otherwise would) #i kinda wonder if id feel more confident in myself if i was like a bi man or smth at least instead of cishet man #the category of “cis/het man” seems to get a lot of hate in certain places here #and it makes me not want to be a cishet man (at least externally) #but id ont want to be dishonest and lie about it or anything #so theres not really a lot i can do

[eulangelo]

cishets in healthy loving relationships w trans ppl arent queer or lgbt or anything but they're doing more for the community than some transphobic cis lgbs out there are which is saying something

#txt #i hate cishets as the next person btw #i just find it funny that u know. theres still openly transphobic ppl in the queer/lgbT community #while some cishets are like. actually helping trans ppl #i feel like ppl just think of queer/lgbt=/= homotransphobe and like. i wish but its not like that #being het or not doesnt help much at all if ur already cis so #food for thought ig

[bubtans]

i literally feel so much more at peace here holy shit twitter is awful

#and i hate saying that bc it's how i communicate with so many people that i adore so much #but it's so much easier to avoid absolute cesspools here #like obviously it was hell many years ago but nowadays #i can't imagine someone unironically telling me what people tell me on twitter #and i think it's because social spaces there have become so mired in this perpetual weaponized victimhood #it's normal to operate like you are constantly under attack by people who disagree with you and that you must respond with indignance #the fulcrum of queerness lies in the eternal self-pitying misery over how mean other queer people are to you #because online queer spaces aren't about reflection or healing they're about unconditional acceptance without any accountability #if i as a lesbian hold my community accountable for how much radfem ideology has gripped it for decades it's an act of betrayal #if i hold bi women accountable for wanting their cishet boyfriends to be allowed into queer spaces without putting in the work for us #i'm getting into bi women's business and 'bi women get abused by their boyfriends so ur being selfish' #it's so fucking juvenile everything is so juvenile

[aemiron-main]

my toxic trait is that due to my transgender homosexual swag and also social anxiety, I watch wedding/wedding related videos sometimes not as wedding inspo or even to laugh at them but literally out of pure morbid fascination/horror. it’s like. how are you not screaming crying throwing up at the concept of having to kiss somebody in front of everyone you know and ur whole family?? the amount of MONEY that weddings cost?? SO MUCH MONEY FOR ONE NIGHT?? the weird wedding rules??? the christian origins and implications of so much of it?? the concept of sleeping w ur partner on ur wedding night and EVERYONE KNOWS????? Like don’t get me wrong I’m pro-sex etc I don’t think it’s a shameful thing at ALL, I’m just personally a very private person when it comes to relationships and pda ESP when it comes to family knowing about it. like hell I could deal w kissing someone in front of my family that’s not the issue, it’s the Pressure of It while they’re all literally staring at You Specifically, Waiting For You To Kiss.

( i mostly watch white cishet wedding content bc that’s where the true heteronormative horrors are- at least for me bc thats what ive grown up around/what the expectation was for my future so I’m just talking abt those specifically)

like I’m literally not even trying to be a pretentious “I’m so quirky and different 🤪” dipshit, I literally just have such a visceral reaction to the concept of it LMAO like kudos to anyone who can go through that bc I would die of embarrassment on the spot I think like I’m not anti-wedding I just don’t get it and I’m sure I’d be fine with a more casual wedding but watching the stereotypical cishet weddings just feels like watching a train wreck like I can’t look away

#don’t take this post to seriously I don’t hate all weddings and I’m not going around making fun of ppls specific weddings #it’s just that the whole thing seems bizarre and awkward and terrifying to me #like it’s not even just crows or anything that freaks me out I did public spekaing for years idc abt crowds #it’s the concept of pda in front of all those ppl #and even then I can get past that but so much of weddings feels like they’re just?? designed to be embarrassing and not in like a fun cute #way but in a cishet resenting ur partner mean stereotypes sad embarrassed way #i also think a lot of my horrified reaction is bc there was a lot of pressure on me to get married young and be a girl and a housewife etc #from certain members of my family so like. from a young age I’ve associated weddings w feelings of anxiety and loss of independence and #loss of agency and privacy and seeing it as something I HAD to do no matter how much I didn’t want to #and like the same goes for having kids oh my god I watch any form of parenting related content with just. pure horror in my eyes

[colombinna]

Diversity win! The cishet perisex dude who made the "SA is funny" character aroace and is now arguing with lesbians over his thoughtless inconsiderate writing is demisexual!

#boy o boy i hate this so much #condescending as any cishet dude #but suuuure #sigh seeing these things as an acearospec lesbian is so offensive #sorry i will not share community with those people #all i wanted was community between lesbians and strict aroace non-men #but of course men always ruin it for you #queer discourse #tea is tired