#i don't usually favor accents in my name because i live an eng-speaking country :'D

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Pronouns anon here again to thank you for your answer. I'll avoid they/them and try my best to use as little "se/vir" as possible to remain pronoun-less :)

Allow me one last question: is Tobias pronounced with Spanish phonetics or does it have a different pronunciation?

I'm really sorry if I sound rude/invasive, but as someone who always gets their name mispronounced and gets misgendered a lot, I care about not doing the same to others, since I consider it basic respect.

Thank you again for your answer and niceness, and sorry once more for the bother, I promise this is the last time 😅

as long as it's no trouble :D thank you again for checking!

personally, i don't mind either way! while i'm accustomed to my friends pronouncing it as it's assumed in american-english (toh-buy-us), feel free to go with tobías (standard spanish pronunciation) if it feels more natural! :]

#i don't usually favor accents in my name because i live an eng-speaking country :'D #i don't often speak abt the other names i've been considering to introduce myself with irl #but this is also why i tend to stick by names such as 'javier' or 'maria' - where the standard pronunciation is assumed #+ ties into the fact i prefer common names as to not deal with mispronunciations x'] i feel you on the whole 'getting name mispronounced'.. #my given name - in its entirety. first and last names in particular - are /constantly/ mispronounced and i'm like Ahhh... #i should make a list of all the ways i've had it misspoken :'P people do try... but. oh wow. #IN ANY CASE... it's no bother!! thanks for checking w me :] #ask #anonymous