#i deeply understand feeling distant from the lgbt community if you're a straight and generally passing trans guy

[sucre-sanguine]

Maybe I'm tipsy but *winds up to hit hornets nest* I really don't understand trans guys who are like. I feel excluded from the community cause I'm not fem. Like broski I am fem and guess what. In most queer spaces I feel like I gotta yell that I'm not a gay woman or a trans woman. I've been on hrt for 3 years. Also do you ever go to spaces that aren't distinctly queer....like... y'know.... most spaces.. ever.

#i understand pointing out the prevalence in online spaces or primarily wlw/queer spaces #but???? i dont actually spend my life at a queer event or support group #i deeply understand feeling distant from the lgbt community if you're a straight and generally passing trans guy #but at a certain point *i* feel distant from the amount of trans/queer culture that doesn't seem to exist IRL #im GENUINELY confused #this is clearly not meant to be a statement on anyone's experiences #if anything id be super open to the discussions #i just feel like im living in a bizarro world here #is it because i dont frequent a lot if lesbian spaces?