#it is so important to him that she knows that he's not like his abusive dad#he's not like his shitty brother-in-law#he's not like her garbage ex-husband#he's not the type of person who blames their shortcomings on the ppl in his life#he takes accountability for his actions and most importantly#he will never take his frustrations his anger his disappointments out on her#not like he's seen the men in his life do to the women he cares about#time and time again