#but yeah I've never wanted to bang anyone lol at least i really dont think so

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Hey sorry to bother, I don't mean this to be offensive in any way, but you're asexual, right? How come you express so much sexual attraction, especially to women? Again, I don't mean this to be disrespectful in any way, I'm genuinely curious, because I've seen other people like this and I don't really follow. I thought asexual meant no sexual attraction to any gender, so I'm a confused as to what asexual actually means. Is it really no attraction or is it no libido? And if it's no libido, then how do you even get a response from seeing the vampire lady? (which by the way, I agree 👀) Sorry again if I'm being disrespectful, I'm just genuinely curious.

You're not being offensive at all! Don't worry 🧡 There's nothing wrong with asking questions my friend. Asexuality is actually a complicated thing! Some ace people enjoy sex and even feel sexual attraction from time to time! But it's just not that 'human need' for us that it is for most people. We'd be just fine never having sex while most people need to and go through withdrawals. It's like...if you could never go hungry and starve, you might still want to eat sometimes just for the enjoyment of it, but you'd never feel like you need to eat and you'd be okay never being able to.

tbh I've never experienced sexual attraction, at least I don't think so 😅 when i talk about the Hot Vampire Milf or freak out over hot girls, it's hard to explain, but it's never in a sexual way. I make sex jokes sometimes though, which I can see would make it confusing! And that's my bad

Don't get me wrong I definitely think they're hot, but it's almost like more of an aesthetic thing, where I just want to look at them and just be amazed at how good they look lol. Sometimes I don't know how to express when I feel that way, so I make a joke that sounds a little more sexual because I feel like that's a response people would be able to understand a little bit easier. I'll make a joke about how I want lady d to throw me through a wall but if i saw any straight up porn of her I'd get VERY uncomfortable.

Honestly I think a big reason I've seemed more and more like I'm sexually attracted to people sometimes is it just feels...easier to respond that way, because it seems to make more sense to people and i don't have to explain my weird-ass feelings.

Maybe it is no libido and I just haven't figured that out yet 😅 but to clarify a long (probably confusing) rambling, I don't feel sexually attracted to the woman I gush about; I think they're ~hot~ but in a way I'm not sure how to articulate, so I make a joke or comment that might sound more sexual because I feel like that's something people would be able to understand.

It's like when you see something so cute you just don't know what to do. This lady's HOT but i don't want to bang her yet I'm feelin SOMETHIN but i don't know what and I'm overwhelmed so i just type 'wowoeowoewowowohhhh g irls' like an idiot 🤣

#i am so sorry this is sl confusing but i honestly dont know how to use words at all #but yeah I've never wanted to bang anyone lol at least i really dont think so #when I make jokes about wanting lady d to crush me its more to get across the point that i think her strength is attractive #and not that i want her to rail me ya feel #ask