#but if some random i do not know said she i prob would squint yk

[jessiesjaded]

Honestly it's not how people usually think of parasocial relationships per se, but I do find the thing where people talk about musicians or actors or otherwise public people and use like slurs and shit really.... uncomfortable. Like it's way too familar? Rude? sure you might have a great gaydar and be pretty sure someone isn't straight or whatever but if you pull up and be all omg he's such a faggot bottom 🥰 I don't like you. That's a weird way to speak about someone you do not know. And it is parasocial in the sense you're speaking about this person as if they're a real friend you know who is cool with that kinda language, but the thing is... you don't know them lmao

#like i click on a blog and theyre being all judgemental of 'delusional' people who have 'parasocial' relationships #but all their posts were speaking about people they do not know as if theyre 100% aware of that person and what theyre like #and its like.... youre doing that too just in a different way #see again its like if a friend said stuff to me i would not care #but if some random i do not know said she i prob would squint yk #like idk i think social media has erased a lot of peoples manners? #idk its just funny #like i mean esp when people comment this shit directly to the ppl