#but i’m well fucking sick of my (female especially) friends thinking it’s sooo funny to call me that

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got a lot of feelings about how people are so very comfortable with assigning people with labels that they may not personally identify with or find confining (i.e. twink/bear/other physical archetypes etc) but they may just stem from myself being transsexual and grumpy. as many things do

#i suppose i doubt myself primarily here because gay male body archetypes are just. descriptors #even if i don’t identify whatsoever with the word twink i am still a skinny/small hairless-ish gay man #so i feel like potentially it’s a stupid complaint #but i’m well fucking sick of my (female especially) friends thinking it’s sooo funny to call me that #it’s not fetishisation but it’s definitely. something #and given that i’m barely over a year on T and not even close to what my body will actually look like i find it infuriating that people who #claim to be close to me will focus on highlight and identify me with my least masculine features #you don’t know shit about my body or my relationship to it!! stop forcing shit on me!!! #whatever first world problems ig #book of jude