#because I showed up at their house and Jonny (Emma’s husband) was like : ‘do you want to date my friend [x]’

[itspileofgoodthings]

do y’all wanna know something funny. when I was in England I accidentally stumbled into finding my sister a boyfriend via @ilovevanillatea and her husband and it is something that has been so funny and good.

#It’s almost been two months so I can talk about it a bit more lightly #it’s had its ups and downs as far as it concerns me. because it’s another big change and one that sometimes feels so full of shadowy fear #and sometimes I have been [ shrieks in strangled anguish ] about it but also and at the same time. it’s been funny #and good. And I am delighted. #My wording is deceptive here —it was really Emma’s husband and Emma who led the charge here #because I showed up at their house and Jonny (Emma’s husband) was like : ‘do you want to date my friend [x]’ #which was so funny. But over the course of the week we (and me for personal reasons) all sort of collectively shifted it over to Nina #and things have been going so great #and it has been probably the funniest and occasionally the most maddening outcome of my trip #(It is good. It’s just also complicated. as everything is!! I’m slowly learning how to deal when the women I love find men in their lives) #(I am very bad at it but I am invested in getting better and in learning how to be a true support) #ANYWAY. Of course I wanted to make a million text posts about this simply from a storytelling perspective #but have had to restrain myself #because you know it’s real life and it’s delicate etc. #but now feels like a safe enough time #anyway the sheer ROMCOM OF IT ALL