#ask me how ik its all performative holier than thou shit instead of genuine fucks being given to people effected by such beliefs.

[snekdood]

i feel like u shouldnt be allowed to say someone has an ideology if they dont even know wtf you're talking about

#idk maybe they came to their conclusions on their own and are more malleable than you think #like if you call me x thing and idek wtf you even really mean when you say it i kinda feel like you dont get to treat me as if im loyal #to some sort of ideology or internet community. clearly ive never interacted w others on this. #kinda puts a huge hole in your narrative for that person. #if they arent being influenced by some niche internet communty- instead of getting mad at them for not being what you wanna accuse them for #(yknow. instead of being mad at yourself for making assumptions 😒) #maybe try investigating why someone whos virtually a normie came to that conclusion and understand how underlying a lot of #ideologies are in a lot of shit. #you should be concerned that a normie is absorbing that kinda shit from normal-seeming sources #rather than assume theyre actively talking to a bunch of ppl online w those ideologies #bc i can tell you for sure- in my particular situation of my abuser accusing me of a bunch of shit- i havent talked to anyone about any #of my beliefs for shit #and if i did they were usually ppl who disagreed with me #my ass never joined any forums. never interacted w anyone w similar beliefs online. just watched videos or read articles. #be more concerned that theres ideologically-laced media being pushed to normies than getting mad at me about it #hey yknow what mati maybe if you focused on that and tried to tackle that situation you'd be more of a productive leftist! #instead of you know. trying to obliterate me from the internet bc god forbid someone hate you for your actions you refuse to acknowledge #ask me how ik its all performative holier than thou shit instead of genuine fucks being given to people effected by such beliefs. #though tbh- i am being VERY charitable with the idea my abuser knows wtf any of the things they accused me of actually means #i think its more like a. vague understanding. rather than actually getting it at all. #and i mean obviously i didn't know what they meant much either. still knew more than them. otherwise they wouldnt call me that shit #unless- no... you dont think--- maybe they were lying??? *gasp* who could've seen that coming !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!! !!! ! #my abuser using the most buzzwordsy language to appeal to people who rely on buzzwordsy language for all the info they get??? #instead of actually looking into the situation at all????? couldnt be. #u really think someone would do that??? just go on the internet and lie to people who for some reason they've gained the undying #trust of no doubt by being the most performative mf online? #vent