#as if it's about something that anyone deemed to be a 'TME' can't experience

[tiger-moran]

When people are unironically using the terms TMEs/TMAs or AFABs/AMABs or 'men, women and enbies' or fucking 'theyfabs'

#yes this is most often to try to deny some group experiences any abuse or oppression #some people need to be barred from ever talking about gender #until they learn about nuance #and to stop trying to reduce everything and everyone #down to a binary or *maybe* a trinary #also to stop trying to reduce everything down to a binary that's like #'the most oppressed ever can never have any privilege' and 'oppressors with every form of power and privilege' #also to learn to care about people whose experiences are even slightly different to theirs #I've even seen this on some post which was demanding 'TMEs' read it #as if it's about something that anyone deemed to be a 'TME' can't experience #and what is the post actually about? being misgendered #because absolutely nobody else can ever be deliberately misgendered #by someone who's meant to support or help them /sarcasm #I am sorry I truly am for everyone else going through any kind of shit like this #but your experiences do not give you any right to be bigoted or hateful or invalidating #or to try to deny the oppression of anyone else #and no this is not just about criticising trans women who do this so many people do this #trans people of all genders do this cis people do this #and I'm fucking tired of it