#anyway I don’t have it in me to be on the ‘poor Marcela train’

[ladysophiebeckett]

marcela demanding and having access to his bank statements is insane. it just gets glossed over and never brought up again. this is not normal behavior.

#ysblf #I would say this is uhh toxic and abusive #especially considering that it’s not like they share bank accounts #I’m assuming armando gave in so she would stop asking #but it’s another form of her constant vigilance over him #suddenly it’s not so bad that Marcela had to pay for the wedding herself #if they can’t even trust each other with their money #(I mean embargo blah blah blah ) #Marcela’s argument must have been ‘why can’t I see them? if u have nothing to hide’ #and Armando was like ‘okay fine whatever’ #her not understanding or caring that he wants privacy for the sake of privacy #anyway I don’t have it in me to be on the ‘poor Marcela train’ #when she was just as a participant in the toxicity of their relationship as he was